u/StreatArt1

M 27, recently got a proposal in arranged setup through relatives, met the girl once, she is from conservative family so she didn't open up first time. we exchanged contacts and started talking on text. I live in a small village working remotely. I asked her if she'd be okay living in village to which she replied yes. But while talking to her for almost 15 days I am not feeling the connection between us. I am having second thoughts about it. I am kind of person who loves adventures and always been travelling to different countries since I graduated. I met so many amazing people during my travels that my expectations from partner gone way up since then. She's quite opposite to me in that aspect, she have never ever left her home and don't know anything about outside world and I fear that it might bring compatibility issues afterwards as I have became open minded and she's quite conservative. I am really confused wether I am being too picky or my concerns are legit. She wants to go forward with it but I am really concerned if it doesn't work out afterwards given the differences.