Hi everyone,
I applied for retrospective ordinary taxation (NOV / taxation ordinaire ultérieure) in the canton of Bern for tax year 2025. I already completed and submitted everything through TaxMe.
In your experience, how long does the Bern tax office usually take to process it and send the final tax assessment?
Thanks!
Hi everyone, I’m looking for some honest advice because I’m struggling to understand my own reaction.
I’m (28F) in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend (31M). He has never given me a reason not to trust him; he’s consistent, open, and from everything I know, he’s never cheated in past relationships. He also clearly says he wouldn’t do that, and I do believe him.
The issue is on my side: whenever he goes out at night (with friends, normal plans), I feel anxious. My mind starts going to “what if he cheats”, even though I don’t actually think he would.
It’s not something I bring up to him or act on, but internally it makes me uneasy and I don’t like feeling this way, especially because it feels unfair to him.
I don’t want to become controlling or let this affect the relationship, so I’d really like to understand:
Is this kind of anxiety common? And how can I manage these thoughts in a healthy way without projecting them onto him?
Would really appreciate hearing from people who’ve experienced something similar.
TL;DR:
I trust my boyfriend and he’s never given me a reason not to, but I feel anxious whenever he goes out at night and worry he might cheat. How do I manage this without projecting it onto him?