u/StruggleInevitable68

Please tell me if you know anyone.

Due to some reasons, I need to get my hair super short. Not necessarily a buzz but something mid/short. Can it be saved considering my huge forehead?

Pleaseee I am desperate.

The school from where I recently gave my SEE is refusing students their transfer certificate. The school gives an option to study IT from 9th grade. They had mentioned it a lot of times that if you choose this path, you aren't allowed to leave the school until the completion of +2. It is a public school and they say that the government has invested a lot of resources in this sector and leaving after the 10th grade is not an option since the school will suffer a loss considering the limited amount of seats reserved by the select few students. That is their only reasoning, which I find infuriating. My dad kinda forced me into it, and back then I just said yes because what does a 8th grader know. The principal would chime in our class occasionally and say that if anyone did not want to study IT, we should tell them right now. What 9th grader would stand up and say they don't want to study what they signed up for on the first day of school? Not me. Now I realize that this is not what I want to do/study and want to quit. Few seniors from IT have actually managed to quit by being stubborn and just now showing up to class till the school gave up, which tells me that the school is just all talk. One of my friend even brought a replacement student, so that the number of students remain the same, but they are still saying no and being difficult. They just say so much stuff to scare the students and pressure them to continue studying at their school, basically putting everyone on a leash, at least trying to. I am pretty sure this is just illegal, but oh well. I need advice on what to do and maybe some resources. I just want to get this over with without having to play argue argue back and fourth between authorities.

I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 17. we have been dating for a few months now, and last night she confessed something to me. I have no idea what to do. few days ago she would randomly say "I feel depressed" and when I proceed to ask her what was bothering her, she would claim to not know and say that it was normal and it would pass. Yesterday night though, we were on a call normally talking, and she brought it up again. she said that she felt sad, angry, and disgusted. She would again say that she didn't know why. I talked with her, comforted her, said it would pass and that I will be there for her. After all that, she broke down into tears. I told her to let it all out, and she did. During her breakdown, she would say "I feel disgusting" and "How do I tell you this?". I stayed there comforting her and said she can tell me when she is ready and that she can tell me anything. After a while, she finally opened up. With tear filled eyes, she mustered up all her courage and cried out "I was harassed". I comforted her more and asked who it was, even though I had already guessed from the entire conversation. It was her step father, she said it was only a few days ago that it had happened. She used the word "Harassed", but it was straight up SA. He had tried to kiss her during her sleep. She resisted and fought back, she said he tried to restrain her, but she didn't let him. After that, according to her, he just walked away like nothing had happened. She told me how disgusted, angry, sad and powerless she felt. I told her we will get through it. She asked me if I see her as disgusting now. That shit broke me. This whole entire thing. As a man, fuck the male species. In my country, so much of shit like this happens and nothing gets done about it. That is one of the reasons why I'm so lost. Idk what to do. I told her that I still love her and that it'll be okay. She had told one more person excluding me about this entire situation. Her mother. Nothing. Her mother did absolutely nothing. All she got from her mother was silence and a "Be careful". wtf mannn. After a few hours of comforting her, she was finally able to sleep and we said goodnight. I am so puzzled and angry. I have no idea what to do. I need help. Advice. Anything would do atp.