How can I support a partner (F) that is already gorgeous but is still deeply insecure about her looks?
I'm dating (not serious yet) this girl (30F) that is gorgeous. Objectively beautiful considering mainstream standards: pretty hair, well structured face, big eyes and big smile, large hips and bosom with thin waist. I honestly thougjt she was out of my league but whatever.
She seems very insecure about her looks. Saying things like "if I was a dermatologist I would use so much of that shit on me" or that she wants medications to lose 2kg (remember, she is thin already). She is very beautiful and doesn't need much to draw attention, also a very gentle and nice to be around person.
I wonder: how big of a red flag is that? How can I help her see it for herself and chill a little about it? I don't know what to do actually, and fear this insecurity will only grow bigger with time. Exploiting it in a bad way (feeding into it, comparing her with other etc) is out of the question, obviously. I just want to support her in a healthy, non-enabling way.
Important to note that she works with Instagram adds, so a lot of exposure to social media.
Thank you for reading and for your inputs!