
i want to steal a cat.. hear me out
Hello, last month we had a cat sitting outside our door every day for hours. He kept waiting outside, was extremely affectionate, and clearly wanted to come inside. We also noticed live worms hanging from his anus. Eventually, we called the animal ambulance. The cat was not microchipped, and they put a stray cat collar on him with our phone number for a week so the owners could contact us if he belonged to someone. We never received any response.
Because of this, we eventually took him inside and first brought him to the vet to check if he was otherwise healthy. It turned out that he indeed had worms, an infection in his left ear, and was also underweight. He only weighed 3.5 kg, despite being a male cat of around 3–4 years old.
When the owners eventually picked him up, they told us they were already aware of his ear problem because he often had wounds there. They also claimed he had already been given deworming treatment. However, just three days later, we again saw live worms hanging from him, which made us question whether the issue had actually been properly treated.
We took care of him for three weeks until the owners finally contacted us after finding their cat on Amivedi. They came to pick him up and told us he was a farm cat, saying: “We don’t love our cats, they are purely for catching mice.” Honestly, that did not give me a good feeling about returning him.
The owners live only about 500 meters away from us, so the cat still comes by every single day. We have noticed that he is becoming skinny again, so we still feed him daily. We also noticed that he was scratching constantly. When we combed him with a flea comb, I removed 13 fleas — and that was not even all of them. Because he was clearly suffering from it, we gave him flea treatment.
I genuinely want to ask: would this be considered neglect? In my opinion, this cat does not seem to be receiving the care he needs, especially considering his condition, underweight state, parasites, ear infection, and the fact that he keeps coming back to us every day. (i'm not a minor and i can afford vet costs in the netherlands)