u/SuccessfulReality572

So I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 10 years. We have three kids together. I have paid her bills and let her stay home with the kids their whole lives. Going on 7 years. Not only do I work, I also uber and do other side gigs to make sure my own stuff is taken care of. The last few years she has gotten super lazy. She doesnt cook for anyone but her parents. She doesnt clean the house. Our house is at a level where CPS would probably take the kids from us. She doesnt make any of the kids clean up. I have to spend what little money I have to buy and make my own food. Now on to the fun stuff. We live with her parents. The only time she sleeps in my bed is when her dad is home on the weekends. Sex is happening once every few months. I bring it up and I am told I am needy and she is too busy. She's got a lot going on. When it does happen, she barely touches me. What does she have going on? She takes care of her mom and dad and her grandpa. Her grandpa will call her and she will jump right up and clean his house. We cant even spend time together without one of her parents calling her to do something. Her free time? Thats spent with her mom. We go on a date maybe once a quarter if I am lucky. So basically she meets none of my needs nor tries to. I want to leave, but I am afraid of coparenting. I am afraid of not being around my two daughters and son everyday. What should I do here? Im sorry if this seems all over the place. I just want to cry thinking of my current situation.