u/Successful_Tank_9252

I just messaged a user on here who claims she was messaged and sent explicit pictures at 15, among the allegations coming out about blackbear. After further messaging and inquiring WHY she did not tell someone or atleast anonymously spread the news with his name being so big, she claimed "it was so long ago honestly I don't feel like scrolling back that far and I didn't see it as a problem at the time". Absolutely disgusting. Those claims, (and actions) lead to serious consequences. It's also disgusting to women who actually go through stuff like that. If there's one thing I can't stand it's a liar, but when you lie about something as serious as SA that's a whole different ballgame. Now I'm not saying the allegations against Bear are true or not true, only time will tell, but I found this person through this sub and felt the need to make this post to anyone who may not understand the severity of such topic.

I'm making this post as a warning and hopefully to help someone so, mods, not sure if this is okay to post but I genuinely want to help people with this. I've noticed a trend of people saying that they either got scammed, or they use the threats of scamming in order to gain lenders trust, or to guilt trip people into lending them. I'm not saying all "I got scammed" posts are like this, but 9/10 posts all involve using guilt as a means to receive a loan.