u/Such_Okra_2941

One thing I've been thinking about something lately how gals in there 20's are into 30+ Men

What i have learned is in your 20s as a man that probably the best years to build something substantial — your career, business, investments, skills, discipline, health and emotional intelligence.

A lot of men spend those years jumping from one irresponsible relationship to another, spending money they don't have, getting distracted by drama, and then wake up at 30 wondering why they haven't built anything. Alafu You pitty yourself

There's a reason some women in their 20s prefer men in their 30s. It's not always about money. Sometimes it's because the man has had another decade to develop himself, become financially stable, gain confidence, and figure out what he actually wants.

So instead of worrying about why women aren't interested you usikuwe emotional damaged na vitu kama hizo

Date if you want. Have fun. But don't sacrifice your future trying to maintain relationships at your 20's. Huwa najihurumia venye nimejiwaste from 21 being employed all those years lakini account inasoma zero, so those are 4 years down the line so i made a decision from within last year sema self love Nikanotice venye pesa yangu ni tamu😂😂👌mangai nowonder warembo walikuwa wananitaka, so currently atleast hata kama sina liquid cash najua ziko mahali working for me.

So toka kwa hiyo Situationship and Husbank shiet!!

All in all

Wantam

Stay Sifunated

Kwani niko nchi ingine?

I keep seeing people on Reddit complaining about the cold weather and how they need a someone to keep them warm.

Meanwhile I’m here in Isiolo like… hata sijui baridi ni nini 😂😂

You guys are out there looking for Teddy bears to keep you warm, while I’m just looking for someone to explain to me what this “Baridi” you’re talking about actually feels like. 😭 saabu

Isiolo weather Hauwezi approach mtu na hii jua labda Nitafute girlfriend mwenye anaweza leta shade.

Back in 2024, I landed a really nice job as a restaurant manager in a remote area. There were locals, wazungu, everyone. Life was actually going pretty well. Nikichaka ingine but beautiful scenery

There was this girl who worked at a shop about 200m from my workplace. She was a beauty kwanza hizo tu hips.😂 I used to buy most of the restaurant essentials from that shop, so naturally, we started talking and got to know each other.

At some point, she became very interested in me. And when I say interested, I mean VERY interested.

One day she just hit me with:

“Br… nipee mbegu yako and nitalea mtoto kinda staff.” 😭

I was like okay and then......... "ooh i just want a nightstand''

I don't usually rush into things, so nikamshow we could take our time. Two weeks passed, and I was still trying to figure out what exactly was going on. This was only my second month at the new job.

Then her sister reached out to me asking if I could help her get a job. Coincidentally, there was a vacancy, so I gave her the opportunity.

Five days later, I over heard a conversation of her sister with other workmates ety fulani ameanguka job.

Let me tell you as a Genz managing nilikuwa social kwa worker and it's was really healthy saabu nobody would back bite so They decided to come and tell me about the situaten that —my alleged “mtaka mbegu,was actually pregnant” 😂that she had fainted and been taken to a clinic

After some tests and checkups, they found out she was three months pregnant.

I was just there thinking:

“WTF?!” 😂

I don't know if she noticed that I had completely changed my attitude, but she suddenly stopped calling and texting me.

Then came the interesting part.

As the pregnancy became more visible, she would sometimes come around my workplace saying things like:

“Mtoto anakutaka” nyinyi mshawai skia kitu kama hiyo?

Nilimcut off vibaya sana

Sometimes you really need to listen when your brain tells you something isn't add