r/254sum

Salah was fouled in the box, but VAR did not review it like they reviewed the foul on Martinez. Anyone saying world cup isn't rigged doesn't see the sense.

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My girlfriend and I are both Accountants at KCB and DTB banks respectively , and together we make around Kes 160K net per month. I know this are very privileged positions. We are not poor, and I am not pretending that we are struggling compared to most people here in Nairobi.

But what shocks me is that even with this income, renting a nice apartment in Nairobi and building a long-term secure life still feels like a herculean task. When we moved here, I thought that if you, worked in a good field, earned well, and saved responsibly, a stable middle-class life would feel almost automatic.

Nowadays it feels like even “normal” stability now requires two people in high-paying, high-pressure jobs. I’m not complaining that we have it bad. I’m more surprised by how high the bar has become.

Do other people in Nairobi feel this too, or is my expectation of what a “middle class life” should be, is just outdated?

Fallen boobs at 25 only means one thing. Unless you're a plus size babe

I've always heard this cliché that men fear approaching beautiful ladies thinking that they can't be single. By beautiful, I'm referring to 9s and 10s in terms of physical appearance. Men, how often do you approach such type of ladies? It would even be better if some ladies shared their experiences.

Hello darlings. Let me ask, beyond and below which age does a significant age gap between two legal adults become suspect?

Personally, I hold the opinion that a manipulation gap exists in the ages of legal teenhood and young adulthood and appropriate age differences should be adhered to strictly when matchmaking. Ages 18 to 24, couples shouldn't have more than a 2 year age difference and even more strictly, the ages of 18 and 19 shouldn't date anybody above 19 years. My argument is, these are for the majority transition ages where someone is still oscillating between childhood and adulthood. Your most grounding experiences still orbit around school. You are yet to exercise full autonomy and agency over your own personal life choices. Your emotions are very volatile with severe moods wings and decision making is largely arbitrary. The effects are stronger down the chronological order.

Picture for instance a 22 year old, and an 18 year old, or a 24 year old and a 20 year old. You analyze them individually and you'll realise very varied inconsistencies in their psychological development. Prove me wrong but 18-24, 1 year might result in a very huge growth and development. Your Psychological schema and even physical posture rapidly sprouts here. What you get is the couples in my examples aren't really equals despite being in the same age set. The younger partner most of the time hasn't experienced enough life to recognise red-flags in their partner, creating a very dangerous space for manipulation.

Even though the law allows it as long as both parties are of legal age, these predatory gaps shouldn't be allowed to pass through the society's scrutiny with extra effort placed in shaming over 25 year olds who actively seek partners under the age of 24. Let young people date their fellow young people so that they can make mistakes at the same level and grow together from them.

Married housewives

Skinny women

Lesbians (closeted bisexuals)

Unmedicated mentally ill babes

Taurus queens

Newly divorced

Septum pierced shawtys

Girls with waist beads

Strippers

Occasionally suicidal chicks (best)

Memorable Mention:

Househelps 😂

Aty madem hutekwa huitwa “Take away”??

28M....Ive made up my mind to end my life in a few months, ive been struggling with life for some time now. I have never secured a job, most of the times i pass interviews but when i appear for jobs im put on hold. Its made me not progress in life...i have nothing of my own, i cant even help my own family and in this day and age if you have nothing going on in life, you're basically a non entity. I cant date either ju i have nothing to offer....ive lost friends because we arent on the same level and i dont blame them. Im not that educated (degree) and fell for these fake instituitions for my diploma studies so it doesnt carry that much weight when im looking for jobs. I just want to feel like somebody and as it stands i dont see any light at the end of my tunnel.

For the next few months i want to try to make the only parent i have happy as possible since i have no one else.

I dont see any reason to live this life anymore. Ive tried my best but seems like i was born to just suffer and its something i cant entertain anymore.