u/Sudden_Two_9466

I apparently missed a yearly physical in February, I completely forgot about it. Went to request a referral for a surgery consult only to be told I was dropped as a patient due to that, its their policy. It wasn't my first appointment there and that was literally the only time I didn't show up. I called asking if I could schedule a yearly physical and they told me the doctor wasn't in today and they'd have to ask him tomorrow.

Am I just cooked? Should I even bother to ask for forgiveness? How would I even do that? Apologize on the mychart?? Is that policy even fair?? I've heard of two or three strike systems but missing a single appointment?

Ill see literal cis girls playing an FPS game or some niche game and 9 times out of 10 its "You must be trans, no cis girl plays X"

Its so degrading. It makes me feel inferior, and that no matter how well I pass people will assume im trans because my favorite color isnt pink and my favorite hobby isn't trying on makeup.

Ill see literal cis girls playing an FPS game or some niche game and 9 times out of 10 its "You must be trans, no cis girl plays X"

Its so degrading. It makes me feel like transfems are just considered lesser (Which isnt true) and that no matter how well I pass people will assume im trans because my favorite color isnt pink and my favorite hobby isn't trying on makeup.