u/Sufficient_Shock875

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I want a sweetening apple spell. not gonna talk about my situation as lowkey don’t want any opinions i just want help with the spell and guided instructions lol.
Want to sweeten my situation and person so give me tips/recipes!!!

side note: can’t give the person the apple.

Many thanks reddit witches!!!

Hi everyone! I’m about to purchase a reading with a tarot reader, and i want to know how i can best ask my questions!!

So ive had readings before this, and i want this one to be my vaguest one yet, because i feel like during my readings i do give up a lot of information which i fear can let my reader interpret more than the cards if that makes sense.

For some information, i did have a breakup… and i want more clarity and guidance on it.
It was a little messy, it was my fault ultimately and i want to know if there’s still a chance for reconciliation.
I want to know his feelings with me AND with the relationship.
i want to know what’s blocking the connection.
i want to know if there still is a connection.

how would you say i should go about asking these questions?

Thank you reddit readers!!! 🫶🎀✨🪬

me and my partner broke up like 4 weeks ago. to make it perfectly clear i do NOT want love/obsess spell as that will not fix the situation!!

long story short i had a flaw that requires therapy to fix which i am doing atm. however he is shut down on me emotionally, cut contact and doesn’t think there’s ever giving me another chance.
There is still a lotta love and affection between us idk i just feel it.

i would love a spell that would possibly help contact, help to take down the walls he has put up to protect himself, soften the situation, maybe a reconciliation and perhaps healing.

To make it clear, if contact was to be re-established, we would take it slow and make sure we are starting the reconciled relationship between us in good standings.

And one last thing, this man is not a toxic man, he is a good, emotionally mature, funny, silly man. i was not nearly as emotionally secure as i though i was so him being cold is NOT a regular occurrence.

I’m looking for advice from people experienced with witchcraft, especially reconciliation, road opening, or communication work.

My ex and I recently broke up, and we are currently in no contact. From what I understand, he is very closed off right now and is deliberately keeping his distance and protecting his peace. I completely understand why he feels that way.
I had a reading recently, and the reader basically told me that she didn’t feel like the love or feelings between us were completely gone. There is still something there emotionally, but she was very clear that this does not mean he currently wants a relationship with me again. She also told me that she didn’t want to do a love spell for me because she felt that if I brought him back before I had actually done the work on myself, we would probably end up back in the same situation.
And honestly, I agree with her.

A major reason our relationship broke down was my argumentative tendencies and the way I reacted to things, which are things I need to seriously work through in therapy. I don’t want to magically bring him back tomorrow, jump straight back into a relationship, and repeat the exact same behaviour. I want to actually change first. I want to do the work, become healthier in how I communicate and handle conflict, and be able to show up differently if we ever get another chance.
Where I’m conflicted is that I would still like to do some kind of working.

I’m thinking more along the lines of a road opener, blockage-removing, or communication working rather than a love spell. He is extremely closed off and there is currently a wall between us. I’m wondering whether there is a way to work on clearing that blockage without forcing his feelings or taking away his free will.
In my head, it would be something like: removing the obstacles that are keeping communication and emotional openness closed, allowing him to become more receptive to seeing things from a different perspective, and allowing him to eventually see that I am genuinely working on myself and changing — without forcing him to come back or forcing him to want a relationship with me.

I suppose what I’m struggling to articulate is that I don’t want to make him choose me. I want to remove the roadblock that means there is currently no possibility of him seeing my growth or being open to communication.
If I do this, I would still be doing the personal work regardless of what happens. I’m not expecting a spell to replace therapy or personal growth.
Would something like a road opener/communication working be appropriate for this, or would you consider that to still be interfering with his free will? Would you personally leave him completely alone and focus only on myself?

I’d really appreciate perspectives from people who have experience with this kind of work, particularly where there are still feelings involved but the other person is currently very closed off and protecting their peace.