u/SugarLace162

Algerian freelancers who are working with overseas clients, how are you getting paid ?

How do you deal with foreign currency while working from dz ? and how do you do online purchases with that money ? what card do you use ?

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u/SugarLace162 — 10 hours ago

انا لادينية

Can anyone help me understand why they believe in their religion?

i'm a deist and i believe in "God", but i think all religions are man-made

لست ابحث عن الجدل, فقط عندي فضول حول معتقدات العرب

i'm also algerian so i might not be able to answer in arabic, i prefer english (its universally understood)

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u/SugarLace162 — 13 hours ago

my comments have been disappearing for the last 20 minutes

i googled it real quick an apparently this means im shadow banned ?? im not sure what that means im new to reddit

EDIT: if anyone is commenting, i literally cant see any of the comments. can anyone please help me figure out whats wrong

EDIT2: i can only access the comments from notifications so i cant reply directly to any of you, seems like it might just be a reddit glitch and im not actually banned. TYSM to everyone who replied

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u/SugarLace162 — 1 day ago

are my standards unrealistic?

All i want is to find a manly and good looking man (body and face) who has never had a prior relationship (i dont want a zani) and who is financially stable and mentally stable...

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u/SugarLace162 — 1 day ago

how do you even maintain friendships

i always make many friends, but all of them are only a step above an acquaintance, they are all superficial and shallow. and for some reason, every time i manage to get close enough to somebody to form a deeper friendship, it ends up horribly and i sabotage the entire thing and turn that person into someone that hates me .. im not sure what im doing wrong

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u/SugarLace162 — 6 days ago

خربت كل علاقاتي و احتاج اشخاص جدد

i only have superficial friends now, i cut off all my closest friends and i miss having someone to talk about deep topics

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u/SugarLace162 — 6 days ago

Marriage in Algeria for a non muslim

How do you find a compatible partner when you can't be honest about your beliefs ? i come from a super religious household that borders on extremism, if they ever find out im not a muslim you'll hear about me on the news in a new honor killing story xD i pray and wear hijab and do all the muslim things to avoid suspicion, but in the end i dont believe in islam

but when it comes to marriage i dont wanna deceive someone by acting religious when im not, and i also want to find someone who has similar beliefs to me, but discussing such beliefs is super dangerous and impractical for many reasons :

1- if he runs his mouth and tells my family about it i might get killed

2- most men in algeria think that a woman not being muslim makes her a cheap easy 304 who's down too do anything

3- if i do find a decent man who has the same beliefs as me, he has to do the same thing i do and pretend to be super religious so my family accepts him ..

i'm a little lost tbh and i'd love to know if anyone else has been in the same situation as me and ended up marrying the right person in the end

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u/SugarLace162 — 8 days ago

never in my life did i think i'd become like this

as a kid i always said i never wanna get married and i hate marriage and its disgusting etc

but now its all i can ever think about.. ever since i turned 19 i cant get it off my mind and its driving me a little bit more insane every year. im not sure how others are completely fine with waiting till 25 or even 30 to get married. at first i thought it was just a phase but i think its turning into a mind consuming obsession

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u/SugarLace162 — 9 days ago

سؤال يراودني

how can i know if a man is truly "maanly" and not pretending ? most arab men act "manly" cuz thats what they were told to do, and some of them are really good at acting and they get married and then their wife finds him taking pics of himself wearing her liingerie and sending them to guys .. some men also promise their fiancé that he's gonna show her a good time in bed and after marriage she finds out he has ضعف و برود

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u/SugarLace162 — 10 days ago

اكبر مخاوفي ...

اكبر كابوس عندي هو ان اتزوج راجل و بعد الزواج يظهر عكس الشخل اللي عرفته قبل

خاصة انو في مجتمعاتنا يشجعون الاشخاص على ان صورتك في المجتمع هي اهم حاجة

for example a guy could feel forced to act like he's manly and dominant but in reality he wants to be submissive in a relationship (nothing wrong with that)

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u/SugarLace162 — 10 days ago

Why do we get told that it's a man's nature to need multiple women?

i'm not sure what to believe anymore cuz if its true then i want nothing to do with men ever and i'd rather die single ... it also feels dehumanizing to men and portrays them as less than human and purely controlled by lust

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u/SugarLace162 — 10 days ago