Mixed signals from a guy, can someone explain?
I’m struggling to understand a guy’s texting behavior, and I’d appreciate some outside perspectives because I feel like I’m starting to overthink everything.
Sometimes he’s extremely attentive and caring. He’ll send me multiple messages, check up on me, show genuine concern for how I’m doing, stay up talking to me until late at night, try to calm me down in difficult situations. During those moments, I feel like he genuinely cares about me.
But then, at other times, he takes forever to reply, avoids answering certain questions and I’m left wondering what he’s doing or where I stand with him. The contrast is confusing because his behavior can be so different from one day to the next.
I’ve caught myself asking follow-up questions (and then deleting them again, yes childish I know) because I don’t understand what’s going on and I feel so stupid for having to ask so much just to get some clarity. Whenever I bring up the inconsistency, he tells me to stop overthinking, says everything is normal and that I’m being too emotional and worried again
Can someone explain this to me?