Even if you have a HT, would it be worth someone going on meds if the rest of the hair is of good quality. Might this be counterproductive to hairloss & be introducing it.
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Even if you have a HT, would it be worth someone going on meds if the rest of the hair is of good quality. Might this be counterproductive to hairloss & be introducing it.

33M & I've always usually had a good head of hair. People have said it's thick & I haven't had signs of loss, apart from the hairline. I decided I wanted to address that minor point to even it out. Currently in Thailand after having 2.5k grafts placed on the hairline, this being week 2. I'm happy with the results & clearly have to wait for it all to set in properly.

Following the op, the clinic gave me a week's oral Min which I've used. I've found even after this week, the shedding is quite obvious & I can already feel my hair being thinner. Given it's so cheap here, I've bought both types of Mini & Fin.

My question. Should I:

  1. Carry on with both oral types & accept that I will shed all over but it should eventually come back better.

  2. Target just the hairline with topical Min & oral Fin to prevent everything being affected.

My concern from seeing people's results here is the shedding is quite prominent & the results don't always come back. I feel if other areas are strong, why affect them.

u/Sumdude992 — 4 days ago

33M seeing & collecting stuff from 27F

I'll try to sum up the story quickly:

- I [33M] was with [27F] for 4 years.

- Broke up & were apart for 2 years 

- Ended up seeing each other again & dating for a period of time up till now. 

- Were going on dates etc & kinda fell back into old times. 

- I was going out of the country for 6 months due to work & said this was always going to be a thing. 

- Came back half way & we spent time together. Went on holiday. Was really nice etc.

- Before I left, I left a bag of clothes & stuff at her house which I have to collect. 

- She became cold & we addressed it & she had 'checked out' of the situation. 

- We've barely messaged as I've felt the decision has been made so what will change it. 

- Am due back in the next couple of weeks. When I'm back, I'm planning to stay at a friend's the day I arrive then collect my things the next day.

- She doesn't work on either of the days so will probably be in or at least someone in the house will.

My question. 

- Do you think I should reach out early to say when I'm planning to be back in the country & when I'd be looking to pick up my stuff. 

- Do I message the day before & say I'm looking to pop round at a particular time & if she doesn't happen to be in but someone else is, it's not the biggest issue. Just collect my stuff & go.

- Do I have the polite conversations & make my way back. Keep it somewhat brief. 

- Do I go for a walk or coffee & we chat / catch up etc which is probably going to be suggested. 

Clearly I'll be pleasant during the whole thing but there's part of me that thinks she had made her decision to check out & there's no way back from. There's a part that kinda wants to stick it to her & be blunt but there's clearly the element I care for her etc. Looking at it, it might be a case of holding onto something that no longer exists in someone else. Just not sure what the best approach would be for a situation like this in terms of reaching out or not. I thought keeping it short would be the best approach, if you agree.?

I felt providing all the relationship history wouldn't make a difference. It's more how you would approach the situation of reaching out first or wait for them to do so.

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