u/Sunny-Sunday-67

Recap - AP of 9 years ghosted me months ago with no warning. Devastated as they never did that before. If time or space was needed, it was always communicated.

New info - this past weekend they appear out of nowhere to acknowledge an important event taking place, hope I am doing well, hope I don’t hate them, and their life is sheer chaos. Nothing more, nothing less.

What does one do with that? Someone mentioned whiplash in their story earlier. I definitely feel that and more.

Thanks for space of letting me share this so it doesn’t keep living in my head rent free.

I believe manifesting truly works but I don’t know how to do it in my own life. What is a good way to start working this into my life? I want to change my mindset and negative energy. I’m not wishing for millions or world peace but for a life that makes smile. To bring more joy and happiness through better finances, a great love etc. I know I have to do the work but I do believe our energy sets the tone of what we can accept. TIA

My AP and I have been "together" for over nine years, and I feel as if the writing is on the wall that it is most likely over for good.

Our conversation abruptly stopped a few weeks ago. I still message; it shows delivered, but no response, which is different from the times we had to step away in the past. There had always been some form of communication. Once we had a text/block for a few months due to a situation at home. This may be a break; time will tell, but my gut says we have ended the series, not the season.

Thank you for letting me share here. As with most of us, we carry all of this alone, and it is nice to lay it down someplace that others can relate.