u/SupaBadSally38Hot

So me 37F and my bf 38M have frequent issues with him waking me up at random times or when he sees fit. Example: late nights (anytime of late night) he'll wake up from sleeping early and will wake me up and start talking... that didnt bother me much..at first. 2nd is he'll know I'm sleep and will damn near have his phone on blast while I sleep.. disturbing me. Like just a bunch of moments like that and I've asked several times to stop. Today hit its head... I've been going through some heavy things the last few days and just want to be able to rest without waking up early or disturbed. He makes a phone call around 9a and was a bit loud so when he finished I asked why didnt he go into another room since he knew I was sleeping. He said what did it matter because I was snoring but I clearly wasnt in that deep of a sleep to know his was otp. He also complains about my sleeping. Just found out my Vit D and iron is low along with a few other factors that cause me be always be tired. He complains I sleep too much or should be up by a certain. He'll make condescending comments like "what, you're just gunna sleep all day didnt you sleep all day yesterday etc etc. He gets irritated when I mention my issues which leads to unnecessary attitudes from us both. Am I too sensitive/a jerk? Or like wtf 😅😅 Idk what to do other than break up. I've tried many convos to no avail

U have frequent issues with my bf waking me up. Example: late nights (anytime of late night) he'll wake up from sleeping early and will wake me up and start talking... that didnt bother me much..at first. 2nd is he'll know I'm sleep and will damn near have his phone on blast while I sleep.. disturbing me. Like just a bunch of moments like that and I've asked several times to stop. Today hit its head... I've been going through some heavy things the last few days and just want to be able to rest without waking up early or disturbed. He makes a phone call around 9a and was a bit loud so when he finished I asked why didnt he go into another room since he knew I was sleeping. He said what did it matter because I was snoring. I clearly wasnt in that deep of a sleep to know he was otp. He also complains about my sleeping. Just found out my Vit D and iron is low along with a few other factors that causes me to be tired. He complains I sleep too much or should be up by a certain. He'll make condescending comments like "what, you're just gunna sleep all day? didnt you sleep all day yesterday etc etc. He gets irritated when I mention my issues about it which leads to unnecessary attitudes from us both. Am I too sensitive/a jerk? Or like wtf 😅😅 Idk what to do. I've tried many convos to no avail ..... update: he's gone.