What’s a good number of partners?
I’m an 18 year old male about to go off to college. I have only had 1 sexual partner in a hookup. I have gotten conflicting advice on how many sexual partners you should have before marriage. Some say you should have sex with as many people as you can before marriage because if you don’t you will crave experiences later when you’re married and have kids and can’t explore that. Others have said you should only have sex with someone you are trying to marry and build a future with.
So men if you have been promiscuous before marriage do you regret it? Men who weren’t promiscuous do you wish you were before you got married? Ladies what is ideally your preference for previous sexual partners in your partners. Also I ideally don’t want my future wife to have a higher body count than me(I know that makes me immature but that’s how I feel). What should I do?