Torn if I should invite my estranged family to my wedding to "do the right thing!"
Hi All,
I need advice please!
I've been NC with my entire family for 3 years. Now, I'm getting married in my hometown next year. A lot of people are telling me to "invite" them as "guests" to do the right thing. (Hometown is very traditional and religious!). The thing is, I'm not close to any of them and a lot has happened and there is no coming back from any of it. I also think it's weird and awkward since we haven't talked for years. I'm also worried that they might make this day as a reconcilliation party instead of my wedding!! IDK what to do and I really want to get married in our hometown with our close family and friends.