u/Suspicious-Owl-3844

My friend, let's call her Jessica, threw a party yesterday. It was so fun. Everyone had an amazing time.

This boy Jessica had been trying to get to come to the party, let's say his name was John, ended up coming with one of his friends. They was very cuddly and close when the party started, and he had his arm around her. I even went up to him and was like, "Hey, are you gonna kiss her?" or whatever. And he was like, "Maybe." I was like, "I think you should," trying to get them together.

When they did kiss, I was the happiest person. I was jumping about, I was screaming, I was taking pictures. I was so happy for her.

The same night, this boy, let's call him Lucas, was telling all his friends how he wanted to kiss me and how I should give him a chance. I even heard his friend talking about it, and he was like, "What did she say? What did she say?" And he was trying for a good hour and a half-ish.

Now, Lucas had a relationship with one of the girls who I used to be friends with, but she did do me really bad. But I was like, I couldn't do that to her. Everyone was saying, "Just do it, just do it." And I know it's, like, really bad, but I do just think it was a one-off, and I'm probably a really bad person for doing that.

But we did kiss. It was a really good kiss, everything 10/10.

When I tried telling Jessica about it, I went up to her. She was sitting on the boy's lap that she kissed, and I was like, "Can I pull you for a chat?" jokingly, like how they say in Love Island. She was like, "No, you can't." And he was like, "What?" she said. And I was just like, "Oh, okay," and I left.
I really wanted to talk to her about it because we both experienced fun things, I guess, for the night, but she just didn't wanna talk about it.
Then the party ended, really fun, whatever.

Then today I was talking to her, and she was talking about her night, and I was trying to suddenly hint that I wanted to talk about mine, and she just left me on opened. Then she just texted again saying how she misses the boy that she kissed, and now we're having this long conversation about it.

I just wanna talk about mine as well, like my night. Although I'm really, really happy for her, and, like, I'm happy to talk about it, it's just like it's not all the time. Like, I wanna get a couple words out, and she hasn't honestly asked me once about what happened with me and this boy, even though she knows briefly what happened because he was all sitting down. I was like, "Yeah, we kissed," or whatever.

She just doesn't care. She only focuses on herself.

We literally had an argument a couple weeks back, and it was, like, possibly the end of our friendship. It was over stuff like this: just never considering other people's feelings, dismissing other people, and just talking about herself and making out as if she's always the prize and the one who's right.

We literally got over it, but it's just bringing all these feelings back.
And I know my actions probably wasn't the best, but, like, I still wanna talk about it. I wanna get another person's opinion, and I can't really.

So I'm not overly mad at it. I just wanna see what other people say, even if I am still in the wrong.

My friend (under 18) was talking to this boy—let's call him John—since February this year. At the start, he said he wanted nothing serious, but when they would text or hang out, he acted like it was much more than that.
They stopped talking in May during half term, but then they started speaking again. Later, we all went out, and she drank a sip of Malibu (which is only about 5% alcohol). She was acting more drunk than everyone else, even though people who had drunk more than her were completely fine. She ended up clinging onto John's leg, and there's a video of it. Apparently, that gave him "the ick," so they stopped talking again.
After that, they were very on and off. However, every time they started talking again, she said that he texted her first, saying he missed her.
Now skip forward to this week. We have a party on Saturday, and she asked him if he was going. He just replied, "Yeah," and then asked if she was going too. She said yes, and after that he didn't really try to keep the conversation going.
Later, she told her friend that she was going to try to approach him at the party because she still thought she had a chance with him. The friend then told her boyfriend, who ended up telling John. After that, John blocked her.
When she realised she'd been blocked, she started tearing up. He then explained the whole situation to me. He said that he never actually texted her first—she was always the one messaging him and asking for him back. He also said that she acted like she was okay with him not wanting anything serious, but then behaved as if they were dating. He told me that he can't even be friends with her because she takes everything as a sign that he likes her.
I'm not trying to spread her business—I just wanted to see another perspective. What do you think?