I have a big event coming up in 1.5-2 weeks where I will be doing a presentation and talking to lots of people, what some high ROI things to do in the short term?
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Two Fridays ago I sat down to finish a project that was due Monday. I had four hours blocked, phone on silent, door closed. I was ready.
Three hours later I'd written maybe 300 words and couldn't tell you where the time went. Not scrolling, not distracted by messages. Just gone.
So I started writing down every time I stopped working and what triggered it. Not in some fancy system, just a notes file on my desktop. The results were weird.
It wasn't my phone. It wasn't coworkers interrupting. It wasn't even procrastination in the usual sense.
It was tiny moments of uncertainty. I'd hit a spot where I wasn't sure if the format was right, or if I should check one more source, or if the intro was too long. And instead of just deciding and moving on, I'd sit there. Sometimes I'd open a new tab and look up something vaguely related. Sometimes I'd reread what I already wrote. Sometimes I'd just stare.
The pause itself was like 20 seconds. But coming back took forever.
I wasn't avoiding the work. I was avoiding the micro-decision. And once I saw it I couldn't unsee it.
Now when I feel that pause coming I just pick the fastest option and keep going. Format's probably fine. Intro's probably fine. I'll fix it later if it's not. The momentum matters more than getting it perfect on the first pass.
It's only been a couple weeks but it's helped more than any productivity trick I've tried.
Anyone else notice patterns like this when they actually tracked what was happening?
Wednesday at 12:20, the cafeteria smelled like fries and the fluorescent lights were buzzing over the green table by the vending machine. Maya was across from me, elbows on her tray, scraping the last bit of ketchup with a fork. Liam was at the corner of the table, earbuds out, flicking his phone with one thumb while someone at the next table kept tapping a pencil nervously.
I had practiced a tiny thing for three days, actually said the words in my head while brushing my teeth, and wrote a two-sentence note that just said "Spring dance? :)" and folded it into a tiny square. I slid it across the table, Liam glanced up, smirked, checked his phone for maybe three seconds, laughed, then said "lol sure" like he was answering a meme and not me. My face went hot, the taste of salt from the fries felt weird, and Maya looked down at her tray like she wanted to disappear.
It was brutal.
Is that rude of him or am I overreacting? If this happened to you, what did you do right after? dont want to make a big deal but I keep replaying it.