AIO - Single woman (40F) is asking my husband (35M) for dating advice
Me (31F) and my husband (35M) have been together for 11 1/2 years and married for almost 4.
Important details : He works in the music industry (so we are apart a lot) and works mainly out of Nashville (weekend touring), so he has an apartment in Nashville. Our main home is in Canada, where we are both originally from, and I live full time. No kids, 1 cat.
Trust and communication are huge in our relationship, and we honestly do a really good job at making it all work.
On to MY issue - Through the artist/band he works for (mostly all single), he has met this woman (let's call her Lindsay) who has been friends with all these guys for a few years now. She is petite, blonde and works in Sports Broadcasting doing interviews with players. A real "one-of-the-guys" kind of girl.
She invites them all regularly to her buildings rooftop pool, golfing days and bar crawls. Lindsay also regularly talks to the guys about her sex life, and I have heard a few stories from my husband.
Lindsay dates around but has been single for quite some time, and my husband often says "once you meet her, you'll understand why".
Yesterday, my husband was meant to go golfing with her, and one of the guys from the band. Last minute, the other guy cancelled so it was just Lindsay and my husband golfing together. He mentioned that all throughout the round, she was mentioning a guy she is talking to, and spent the whole morning asking my husband what she should say to this guy to make him like her more & what she should be doing differently on her dating profiles.
I have an issue with this because it is as though she is asking what HE would want to hear/ what HE would want her to say to HIM if he were this other guy.
I have full trust in him, but it wouldn't be the first time a woman tried with him even though he's married. I just think that she could be asking all the other SINGLE LONG TERM friends these questions instead of the married guy who has been off the market and not in the dating world since 2015.
So, AIO about a single woman asking my husband for dating advice?