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I (28M) need advice in a situation with a female friend (25F). We’ve been close for a while and she’s always been very flirty. On one occasion, she even slept in my bed in just her underwear which I thought was a sign, but when I eventually made a move, she rejected me and said she wasn't into me like that.

Then, at later point, me her and friends were all hanging out at my place and she ended up hooking up with another guy right on my couch.

I felt totally disrespected. It’s one thing to not be interested in me, but to use my home as a hookup spot with another guy—especially after the mixed signals she’s given me—felt like a slap in the face. I’ve been avoiding her ever since. She’s reached out a few times, but I honestly just want to cut her off. Am I being bitter, or is this friendship just toxic?

I don't know what I'm expecting here. Like this friend of mine I've been hanging out with she's pretty flirty I guess, and one night she was sleeping in my bed with just underwear on and I went to make a move and she said she wasn't into me in that way, and I was like cool that's fine. But like whenever we go out she's flirting with every guy and I found out she slept with one guy on my couch and since like last week when we went out I've just felt weird.

Like I don't want to hang out with her anymore. She's cool and I don't know if this is mean of me. She's reached out a few times but I've just kinda avoided her. I know a person can make their own decisions but I just feel weird being around her when it seems like she's flirting and sleeping with every guy but me. I get that no one owes me sex, but at the same time it felt like she was hinting at that then hardcore rejected me while sleeping with someone else on my couch another night.