u/TattooBubbleGum

*Admin this is not a buy/sell post

Habari zenu wadau,

Nahitaji nyumba ya 3 bedroom ya National housing Mwanza mjini.

Kuna yeyote ana connection?

Katika biashara yangu watu hawa wanapita sana. Wengi hujirudiarudia sana.

Misaada huwa ni michango kwa ajili ya matibabu, kujenga misikiti, ulemavu, kupungukiwa nauli, kwenda scout, kulisha familia n.k.

Natamani kujua maoni ya wadau hapa

I have noticed that it is a common staple at weddings and proposals, but if you actually listen to the lyrics, it is the furthest thing from a romantic commitment. It is not a song about "forever"; it is a song about being bored, drunk, and making a mistake.

The entire premise of the song is based on spontaneity fueled by "dancing juice" (alcohol). Lines like "It’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do". You’re saying that marrying me is dumb? and "Who cares if we’re trashed, got a pocket full of cash we can blow" suggest that the marriage isn't a life-long vow, but rather a reckless whim.

He even explicitly says, "If we wake up and you wanna break up, that’s cool." Wow!

Shouldn’t a proposal should be about certainty and a shared future? Using a song that treats marriage as a "dumb" activity to do while "trashed" is actually kind of INSULTING to the person you’re asking to spend your life with. It’s a catchy song, but as a romantic gesture, it’s SO low-effort.

Every time I see a flash mob proposal with the song I just cringe.

I need new “child friendly“ places to go on weekends in Mwanza. I feel kwamba naenda the same places every week.

KwaTunza, Malaika, Saanane, Rock city mall, JEMBE beach.

Can I get new suggestions please