u/Technical-Fruit-7096

I met this amazing guy, his 34M and I’m 33 F. We have been dating for 3 months and we have grown super close in our relationship. His very certain about me which is a great feeling. I live alone in an apartment and he lives with two of his friends in the same complex. I love him and I’m enjoying our relationship. His respectful, kind and this has been the best 4 months I’ve had in a relationship for a while. He makes me happy and he takes care of me, he also respects me. The issue is that his a foreigner and that is why his sharing a space, this means he doesn’t have a car as well while his in the country. He doesn’t struggle financially it’s just that the work permit his applying for will take a while before it’s accepted and that’s when he’ll be able to have these things figured out. We are always at my place because I can’t enjoy space where he lives since there’s always people around. I’ve spoken to him about this and he says he’s trying his hardest to follow up with the agent but it’s taking a while. This doesn’t change how it bothers me, I need advice on this as it’s something that bothers me on a daily.

I trust his efforts as a man and how his able to financially spoil me at times, I don’t doubt his abilities it’s just that not having a car and the living condition is truly something I can’t move past. How can you advise me moving forward considering how this bothers me? He insists that this isn’t an issue but for me it is, please assist?

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Hi All, I desperately need advice