Always Rejected
Hey guys, I’ve been meaning to talk about this because it has been bothering me for a while. I’ve been facing a lot of rejection and it has really been affecting me a lot. I feel people don’t understand why I take it so seriously, but I used to be really ugly growing up, and it wasn’t until after high school when I improved myself and felt better. When I tell someone who has better luck with dating they would just dismiss me or give me superficial guidance.
I feel I can have close friendships with girls, but if I make a move they would reject me coldly. I don’t think I’m a 10/10 but realistically I’m a 7/10 on a good day and 5’8 in height. Even after I improved myself, I still get rejected in a rude manner. One time my friend tried to put me on and the girl said no in a rude mannerand was doing all these gestures as if she was forced to go out with me, and I was like ‘ok wtf’ I have also tried dating apps and I have had absolutely zero luck, and haven’t been on a single date since 2024. Even if you would ask a girl if they would go out with me they would say no with no hesitation, and it sucks honestly and I hate that feeling of someone just rejecting you without second guessing it. I have also been given dirty looks or girls distancing themselves from me as if I’m harassing them whether I try to talk to them casually or just minding my own business.
I feel dudes with better genetics like height get better opportunities than me. This one dude who’s like 6’6 has all the girls gushing over him, and I’m not jealous but it makes me think about how unrealistic standards are nowadays. I feel I have confidence and I know I’m a decent looking guy but not enough for a girl to go out with me, and idk how to describe it tbh.