▲ 3 r/Kenya

How much is too much?

My soulmate and I have been having sex every day for the past 3 years. Sometimes twice a day though most of the time ni once in a day 5 days a week. The most tumekaa bila ni 5 days consecutive (nilikua na severe cramps at that time) and the time tulikua long distance - which neither of us cheated.

Even on my period anataka. I thought I had normal/high libido but his is way way higher wueh. I'm not always in the mood sometimes so kama ni asubuhi namshow angojee at a later time ndo niamshe mwili. He always listens and has never forced me but I'm wondering if we can go weeks without sex. Maybe even just 2 weeks ndo libido irudi vizuri coz saa hii nimetosheka ile serious. Like kikombe ya kutamani kulwa imejaa kitambo. Nimeshiba sex Mimi. Is this normal? How do I go about this? Married couples especially. We're farmers and have a lot of time on our hands.

Apologies for the vulgar language. Ingebidi tu niseme na lugha nimezoea.

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 1 day ago
▲ 206 r/Kenya

I am fat

Yap. Sometimes I'm okay with it. Sometimes I'm not. And today is one of those days. Tell me why every event naenda naekwa guest of honour. Ati sasa nichange pesa. Nilienda mazishi and they served me food first before literally everyone else. Nikipewa food wanaeka ni kama elephant anafaa kula hio food yote. Mind you, I'm fat because I'm dealing with a processed food addiction... kedu small tu. Napenda crips, chipo, sweets. Btw I'm dealing with that addiction, Niko in the recovery process. Si ati nipewe ugali maharagwe ya watu 10. Niko 89 kg btw. Lost like 20kg over the past couple of years. Everyone knows me now as the big girl, juzi nimeulizwa mtoto ako wapi. Huku kila mtu anaona niko pregnant. 365 days of the year? Anyways I'm reminded not to judge akina Mindy Keling na ozempic yao because leo karibu ni give in niforce daktari aeke kwa prescription zangu.

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 1 day ago

Recovering

Didn't leave my house for 5+ years. No social contacts. Disillusioned. Depressed. Limerence. I recovered though. Still am. So I am sending out hope to everyone dealing with agoraphobia silently. Just take it a step at a Time. Find someone that cares about you, maybe they can help you. 🫂

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 3 days ago
▲ 24 r/Kenya

Recovering hikikomori

I was once a recluse. Didn't leave my house for 5+ years. No social contacts. Disillusioned. Depressed. Limerence. I recovered though. Still am. So I am sending out hope to everyone dealing with agoraphobia silently. Just take it a step at a Time. Find someone that cares about you, they can help you. Reach out. Face your fears 🫂

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 3 days ago
▲ 69 r/Kenya

I love my bf

Nampenda sana. We've been together 3 years, seems longer. We're not perfect but we choose each other everyday. He's kind, handsome, humble. I wanted to share this on my IG but sitaki watu huko waone nabrag or sth. He's not on social media. Before this nilikua in a toxic situationship, and I met him literally days after ending the relationship for good. Sometimes I wish I had been given more time to heal, but nothing's perfect in this world. This past Monday we were in a field at night watching the moon, tulikua at his workplace. Core memory ❤️🥰

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 3 days ago
▲ 147 r/Kenya

My bf ni mchawi

Usidate mchawi kama mimi. Learn from my mistakes. The amount of miti huyu jamaa ameniekea ni Mungu tu anajua. Leo nimepata tuvijiti kwa mlango nikazichukua nimezichoma. Amekasirika. Ati, " unajua hizo hazichomwangi. Unajua umefanya kitu mbaya kuzichoma?" But ameeka miti kwa mlango ndo nisimwache. Kuna this mchawi mzee wanacollaborate ili nisirudi kwa wazazi. Tuko ushago. Anyway analeta ma concoctions home. Like kwani how insecure can a person be? Nacheka tu. But I'm cautious asinipee sumu. Me nafuata dini ya African Spirituality pia lakini this is too much

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 15 days ago

A little Sunday Treat

The Kuku itself ilikua tu ngozi fried. Barely any meat. But this was a little treat for myself today. Niko ushago so nilisafiri mbali nipate hii.

u/ThanksWilling9268 — 15 days ago
▲ 39 r/Kenya

Unaezaje oga bila washcloth?

Nimeona kwa another sub hapa. Someone asks if people use washcloths to wash themselves. And many people are saying they just use their hands??? Wym. Mkono tu na sabuni? Eei sema culture shock.

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 18 days ago
▲ 4 r/Uganda

Friends in Mbale

I'm Kenyan and I will be in Mbale in a few weeks. Looking for people to hang out with, hiking or just exploring the town. I love everything Uganda and I've been to Mbale a couple times now.

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u/ThanksWilling9268 — 2 months ago