My partner and I don’t know what to do
Hello,
I haven’t made a post before but my partner and I have hit a wall and are looking for any kind of advice available. I know it’s probably not the best thing to post your problems on the internet but I’m just interested to see if anyone has a similar situation and/or any ideas for us.
I’m f20 heteromantic asexual and my partner is m21 heterosexual, and although we are very much in love, he still has sexual desires that I don’t really feel comfortable providing. He has tried master baiting a bunch but seems to be sexually frustrated or at least to the point where it’s hurting him mentally. We are trying to find something that works for him that I am also comfortable with.
I have a big no/strong dislike towards penetrative sex, I also think sex organs both men and woman are gross to look at. I don’t master bait and don’t think it would work on me anyways.
Is there any solution or any ideas on what we should do that would satisfy his sexual needs while not being penetrative? We both really love each other and can’t fathom breaking up but I’m worried for his mental health and he really wants me to feel comfortable.