Am i the asshole for ignoring my friends even though they tried to apologize to me?
(I apologize in advance if my english is not good bcuz english is NOT my first language).
First time posting and i need advice immediately!!
My friends and I are a trio in our classroom. Let's call them Maddie and Cristal. It's not like we don't have other friends, but we have our own circle that consists of five people. The two of them are in a different department, while the three of us are in the same department. I also have other friends aside from them, and I would go up to them and have conversations with them.
One time, I decided to talk to another friend in the classroom who just happened to be my childhood best friend. We were having a deep conversation when Maddie suddenly interrupted us and said, "We're still here, y'know?" We just laughed it off and continued our conversation. While we were talking, the two of them, especially Maddie, kept making all of these passive-aggressive comments like, "Okay, they have a new friend," and "They're replacing us, Cristal," those types of comments. It was quite annoying because we were literally having such a deep conversation, and they kept interrupting us (not every damn time but they would interrupt us a lot y'know what I'm sayin'). Since I was sitting in Maddie's seat, whenever she tried to take something out of her bag, she would get SUPER close to me and very obviously try to eavesdrop as a joke.
So when Maddie demanded that I go back to my own seat, I asked her if I could sit there a little longer since the teacher for that period was absent and no one was really monitoring us. She immediately yelled at me, saying that she wanted to sit in her own seat. I didn't say anything because I didn't really want any trouble, especially with my friend, so I proposed to CBF (Childhood Best Friend) that we should sit somewhere else so that Maddie could sit in her own seat. But when Maddie saw that I was changing seats with CBF, she immediately gasped and called me a whore (which isn't real). I was embarrassed because she said that in front of so many people, and everyone was looking at me. Then I snapped back, "How am I a whore when you literally get a new crush every week?" (also isn't real, but it's true that she always finds a romantic interest in other boys outside of our classroom). Then CBF and I sat down and continued talking while writing since I didn't really want to make a big deal out of it, even though Maddie was the one who practically screamed that I was a whore.
I asked the two of them if they were done with their work, but they suddenly acted like I was weird for talking to them, as if we didn't know each other. "OMG, who is this?" "Yeah, like why are they talking to us?" I tried to laugh it off, but they kept going, so I ignored them and continued writing.
They then switched seats beside us, and when I tried to talk to them again, they still kept going with the joke. It was starting to literally annoy me because they wouldn't drop it. Like, can't they move on from that? So I laughed it off AGAIN even though I was starting to get annoyed.
When class was over, I was assigned to clean the classroom, and the two of them were waiting for me. Then our other friend said, "Look, they're waiting for you." I jokingly said, "I thought we weren't friends anymore," even though I was still annoyed at them. Then they left, and after I was done cleaning, I saw them waiting in the hallway across from another classroom. So when I tried to approach them, the two of them saw me and immediately distanced themselves from me. That's when I actually got pissed because I didn't even do anything to them. I thought, "They have the audacity to avoid me and act sulky when I didn't even do anything to them in the first place." So I waited for my gay friend to accompany me and walked right past them. Even though the two of them were following me, I kept walking. Then, when I was about to leave, the two of them chased after me and said, "Geez, you're so dramatic. Oki, we're sorry HAHAHA." I was actually super pissed at them because they weren't even apologizing to me properly.
P.S: this is just the part 1 of the story