u/TheArcadeBunny

I’m going to go there sometime soon and I had an outfit I really wanted to wear out, but I’m not sure how accepting the city is when it comes to this stuff, do any of you know?

After a lot of time spent bargaining with myself, I really don’t think I can deny it anymore. So yeah, I’m trans now. This is gonna make everything in my life 12 time more difficult. Looking at the bright side, I’m straight now.

Girl name recommendations? I really have no ideas besides the female version of my real name

I’ve been really leaning into type of fashion and style that focuses on looking a little spooky, but actually also creepy and eerie. I know it kinda stems away from what femboys usually are (with all the super cutesy stuff) but this is so much fun! What do you guys think?

Today I’ll be talking about how to match colours for your outfits (yaaay), I recommend you pull out a colour wheel for this

There are many tactics you can use:

- Complementary: two colours that are opposite on the colour wheel will create a nice contrast. What I like to do is to pick a majority of one of the two colours and then add some details of the other colour

- Analogous: for when the colours are sitting next to each other on the colour wheel. Usually fits like this are more complex though, as you’ll need more clothes to make it pop

- Monochromatic: when you use different shades of the same colour, it can look very nice but it’s very situational (in my opinion)

Another thing that should be mentioned is that black and white fit with any other colour, so they look really nice with anything (as someone who dives in emo/alt fashion, they really carry well)

Thank you for being here, kindly

~Val 🫀

First of all for not being here yesterday, but the words to express how busy I was do not exist

Anyway, today we’ll focus about your beautiful smiles: you should always smile when you’re trying to look pretty. Have you ever seen a pic of a celebrity and thought they would look much better while smiling?

A smile is an easy way to immediately look better, even if you have crooked teeth or a massive mouth.

So yes, if you’re happy, don’t be afraid to smile! In pics, flash out a charming smile! And if you feel like yours is ugly, you can practice in front of the mirror.

Thank you for coming here, kindly

~Val 🫀

Just a weirdo who has been harassing me, I don’t know if he’s a pedo or not but don’t send him pics, that’s for sure

Greetings again, my minions, today we’ll be talking about body hair

Today well be focusing on getting rid of it, and then tomorrow I’ll give some tips on how to take care of it if you wanna keep it

So, how to get rid of body hair? First thing you wanna do is use an electric razor and try to make all the hair shorter. You can pick if you want to damp it or not, I do it dry at this part. Next up, you wet it, put shaving cream on your body (If you have it), and then you use a normal razor to shave everything smooth.

Then, you wash off everything, possibly put an hydrating cream or something to avoid red itchy spots from forming, and then you’re done.

If you’re brave, you can use an epilator or wax, but they’re really painful. Either way, the final effects look pretty neat. Either that, or you make a professional wax you, but that can be expensive.

If you have any more questions, feel free to comment :]

Kindly

~Val 🫀

Today’s for all the guys out there who are insecure about their height.

For us humans, changing our height is impossible without using surgery (which can be dangerous and harmful), so the best thing that can be done if you don’t like your height is… to come to terms with it.

So, for all the tall guys who feel awkward around other people because they think they look intimidating, and for all the short guys who think they cannot be taken seriously, you guys are perfect, you all are, and most people won’t even care about your height.

Or if it’s really bad, just move somewhere where everyone is much shorter or taller than you lol.

Kindly

~Val 🫀

Today I’m just going to be resting cuz I’m tired and don’t have any topic prepared since I was super busy all day (I just got back from 7 consecutive hours of theatre practice and I’m kinda very tired).

So, yeah, live, laugh, love, drink water, you’re super hot, be yourself, and yeah

If you have any questions, ask them in the comments

~Val 🫀

Greetings once again, today we’ll be talking about what girls believe to be the hardest makeup to put on, eyeliner.

In here to tell you that it’s actually quite simple, it was the first sort of makeup I ever put on and it’s very versatile, it can look good on literally anyone, doesn’t necessarily require other makeup to enhance it and it’s easy to figure out what type to get.

Assuming that you want to do something subtle, I recommend getting a “micro-tip” (that’s what it’s called here), as the smaller brush will make it easier to cover up mistakes, and won’t make it too noticeable. It’s also easier to use.

I recommend getting a pen since liquid eyeliner is much harder to master effectively (albeit doable).

If you want to learn how to put it on, I recommend looking up YouTube tutorials, since they can be very clear on the matter.

Finally, sometimes I also like putting some pencil (makeup) with my eyeliner, cuz it blends everything in better and makes my eyes look bigger

I can’t think much else to add, if any of you would like some more tips, or would like to know anything else related to beauty, no matter who you are, feel free to ask. Or if you want to brag about a beauty goal you reached, or need affirmation for something you feel ugly for, we want those comments too

Kindly

~Val 🫀

Today’s going to be focusing on more feminine haircuts (especially for straight hair) as these is the type of hair that I usually deal with (wow, how surprising).

Now, for all of those femboys that are unsure how your hair should look, I will say that growing it out is great: people will mistake you for a girl way more often, I think that aesthetically it looks great, AND if you grow it out a lot (like me) it will cover your shoulders, which is good if you have masculine shoulders and want to hide them.

There’s to say, it’s not the easiest thing to care about your hair if it’s long. Besides the super atrocious part of your life where you’re still growing it out and it is at that awkward length, once it’s long, it can get dirty easily, you’ll have to use more specific products etc. etc.

What I recommend is, when you wash your long hair, use shampoo specific for your hair type, usually it’s written on the label of the box, and you have to sort of figure what your hair is like. Conditioner is OP for long hair, especially straight hair: not only does it hydrate your hair and make it nicer, but in my case, it makes it shinier AND much easier to brush.

Finally, be careful when you dry it, as it can burn easily with the heat.

I don’t know if there’s much else I can add, but if you have any questions about this topic or anything else, or you want to tell someone about an insecurity you have about your looks or a beauty goal you’ve achieved, feel free to comment.

And also, reminded that ANYONE can ask stuff about beauty here, not just feminine guys. Even if I’m not versed in what you ask, I can still do proper research.

Thank you for being here, kindly :]

~Val 🫀

Hello once again, today’s topic is having a femboy physique.

To start out, I’ll say that achieving a perfect, feminine hourglass figure is close to impossible: trying to look exactly like a woman with a man’s body and without the use of estrogen (please, don’t use it if you’re not trying transition or if you’re not sure you won’t regret it) requires you years of meticulous training, strict diet, and incredibly good genes.

Femboys and bodybuilders are very similar, really, they’re monster addicts, they train a lot, they cry because they can’t reach impossible body standards.

While having the perfect body is almost impossible, having a good body is just… mildly hard, depending on where you start.

First, you should focus on your tummy: stereotypically it’s pretty flat, so abs workout is really helpful. I especially recommend sit-ups, as they gave the best result for me without pumping the muscles too much.

Now, you should keep in mind that, if you’re trying to stay that skinny, having bigger parts of your body is… not easy. So getting massive thighs is close to impossible, unless you have perfect genetics. But if you want to get at least minimal results, just do much leg workout: squats are busted in this field, cuz they work on all the right spots very hard.

If you want to know a bit more, say it down here, and if you want other advice, affirmation for something you’re insecure about or you’ve achieved, tell me :]

Kindly

~Val 🫀

Hello again hot people! After yesterday’s introduction, many comments asked about blackheads and pimples and how to deal with them, so it’s going to be today’s topic

If you have blackheads:

DONT squeeze them, it will only make the pores on your skin loose, which ends up giving more space to the nasty stuff in them and makes the black spots more noticeable

Skincare is really the best way to avoid getting them: you want to wash your face with hot water first, this will loosen the pores on your skin and make the stuff flow out more easily, then use a soap specific for the face (hand soap will give you more black spots), I’m not sure what the name is but I call it scrub cuz I rub it on my face and it has a kinda scratchy feeling.

After your face is covered in soap and you rubbed it on it well, you wash everything off with cold water (it has to be cold cuz it closes the pores on your skin, this way dirt and that kinda stuff will get in with more trouble and you’ll stay clean for longer)

This works to get rid AND prevent them from popping up, if you have a really big one (black spot) I’m not sure if it works, but you should try it before squeezing it (though it’s super satisfying)

Either you do all this or you cover your face in foundation, but this is much healthier

For pimples, on the other hand, this skincare routine usually works to prevent them from popping up, but it won’t get rid of them right away.

DONT SQUEEZE THEM, instead, I recommend waiting for then to go away naturally and keep healthy habits that prevent them from popping up: unlike blackheads, which are usually caused by a lack of proper wash, pimples can pop up from stress, diet, uncomfortable clothing.

If you have acne, it’s a little more complex, as it’s more of a condition. If anything you tried doesn’t work, you might want to consult a dermatologist: they’re medical experts who can prescribe you things to deal with acne (I have a friend with a really bad of acne, and after he started seeing a dermatologist he’s getting a lot better)

Last but not least, DONT FORGET YOU’RE A TEEN! It’s normal for you to have Acne, it’s because of your raging hormones! It’ll pass eventually… most of the time

If you have questions about beauty (skin, clothes, hair, makeup, physique) or if you just want to flex a beauty achievement you reached, feel free to comment :]

Thank you for reading, kindly

~Val 🫀

Hello, because of the unfortunate temporal retirement of the aspiring boywife, I’ll be replacing him until he comes back.

I’ll be posting everyday about beauty tips (such as how to take care of your looks, makeup, clothes, healthy habits) and pretty much reminding everyone that there is no such thing as being ugly, just not have reached your full potential

While this thing is more targeted towards the interest of femboys or other kinds of feminine guys (which, let’s be real, it’s basically 80% of this sub), anyone is free to ask questions and try to improve their general looks

If there’s something specific you’d like to know, just tell me and I’ll post it one of these days :]

Thanks for viewing the introduction, kindly

~Val 🫀

I don’t know why, well, I have theories, but it’s a long story, and it’s probably kinda selfish but I really could use someone listening to me ranting or venting (mainly ranting though)