Jessica Ciencin Henriquez (Josh Lucas's ex, mother of his son Noah) writes for the New York Times that she has sworn off men because she never met one who made her feel safe

"No More Sex, Flirting, Scrolling or Swiping." She now wants to be a turtle instead. I'm just spitballing here, but my guess is there were in fact men out there who would have made her feel safe, but Josh was probably not the ideal choice for that purpose:

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/08/07/style/modern-love-no-more-sex-flirting-scrolling-or-swiping.html

u/The_Awful-Truth — 2 months ago

When do you expect things to start getting better, and what needs to happen to enable that?

A few days ago, on r/askReddit, there was a thread for "what has gotten worse in the past couple of years?" and the answer was unanimous and apparently bipartisan: "EVERYTHING!" Certainly I don't disagree. Things aren't terrible, but there seems to be a kind of depressing undertow to everything, not just economics.

So, when do you expect things to start getting better, and what has to happen for that to turn? Could we be at the beginning of a Japan-style spiral, where things have basically gotten worse, with some relatively brief pauses, for 35 years now? That seems to me to be where things are going, barring the emergence of a Roosevelt-like figure who can reboot American democracy, but it's always easier to see festering problems than the proverbial "green shoots".

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u/The_Awful-Truth — 2 months ago

What do you consider the most important bilateral US relationships to be?

I was inspired to write this up by a kind of persistent annoyance with the disproportionate coverage that Israel gets in US news coverage. Foreign policy in general is of course important, and underreported, but the most important countries don't usually get the most coverage. To get things started, here's my list of my best guess of the top 50, with Israel at #43. Note that this is not to be considered praise of any of the "high-ranking" countries, just an objective-as-possible measure of their relative importance to the future state of our own (US) lives (which of course means the state of the world in general as well):

  1. China
  2. Canada
  3. Mexico
  4. India
  5. Japan
  6. Russia
  7. Cuba
  8. UK
  9. France
  10. Germany
  11. Brazil
  12. South Korea
  13. Turkiye (nee Turkey)
  14. Ukraine
  15. Saudi Arabia
  16. Italy
  17. Taiwan
  18. North Korea
  19. Pakistan
  20. Venezuela
  21. Indonesia
  22. Iran
  23. Australia
  24. Dominican Republic
  25. Nigeria
  26. Spain
  27. Poland
  28. Colombia
  29. Democratic Republic of Congo
  30. Bangladesh
  31. Argentina
  32. Vietnam
  33. Haiti
  34. Peru
  35. South Africa
  36. Netherlands
  37. Ethiopia
  38. Tanzania'
  39. Guatemala
  40. Panama
  41. Kazakhstan
  42. Sweden
  43. Israel
  44. Egypt
  45. New Zealand
  46. Yemen
  47. Switzerland
  48. Singapore
  49. Costa Rica
  50. Ireland
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u/The_Awful-Truth — 4 months ago

New York Times opinion piece attributes falling fertility rates in large part to "uncertainty"

Article here: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/07/opinion/birthrate-kids-parents-demographics-future.html . I was glad to see it, since this articulated quite well a feeling I have had for a while but couldn't quite come up with the right words for. It's not the cost per se, but the uncertainty of whether you'll be able to handle the cost, as well as other demands. The authors call this "vibes" but to me it looks more like a clearheaded evaluation of an increased risk/reward ratio.

u/The_Awful-Truth — 5 months ago