u/The_Bastard_Henry

Was anyone else extremely young when you realised religion was nonsense?

I was raised extremely Irish Catholic, and sent to a very small Catholic school from age 5. When I was 7, one of my cousins went through an awful battle with cancer. She was older (18 when diagnosed) but I was pretty close to her. She could have gone professional with show jumping if she hadn't gotten sick, and I was starting to compete in local horse riding competitions, so I really looked up to her.

She died about a year later, and it was then that it just kind of dawned on me that the religion I was being taught was all a load of rubbish. My aunt--dead cousin's mother--was (and still is) the most devout Catholic I've ever known. She's had an absolutely shit life from the get go, too much to type. Basically: mentally ill woman in rural Ireland in the 50s/60s and it goes just as badly as you think it can.

I thought I was a freak for not believing in God. All the adults around me were pretty insistent that their religion was true, and none of my peers questioned it. It was a few years before I encountered someone who was also an atheist.

Anyone else have a similar experience when you were really young, that made you totally reject Catholicism?

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u/The_Bastard_Henry — 2 days ago

Anyone have a recommendation for a PI in the NJ/NY area?

We've been using the same guy for over 15 years and he just retired. We have a lot of cases where defendants need to be tracked down, so we're looking for someone who isn't going to charge us a fortune just to do a skip trace instead of a more in-depth search. We've had some bad luck so far with new PI's.

Thanks!

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u/The_Bastard_Henry — 9 days ago