u/The_UnknownArchivist

me and my partner had been through a while of a rough patch after 9ish months together and recently decided on having a 3rd person seeming as how we both feel a 3rd partner would make things interesting and improve the relationship. now, i’ve seen my posts on looking for advice on finding a 3rd flagged as unicorn hunting and i would appreciate any information on what that is to avoid being perceived as a terrible kind of person and by extension my partner.

edit; i’ve learnt that apparently 3 person relationships (searching for the 3rd person) are unicorn hunting and that’s apparently a harmful kind of relationship. even though i’ve seen plenty of posts saying that 3 person relationships work? any info on that would be appreciated.

further context for people who think the relationship i have with my partner is fucked still; no, it is not, we have been working on it as the rough patch has already ended. we were working on making the relationship a better one which is where the 3 person relationship comes in. as we think the relationship has gotten good enough the 3rd would be one of the steps in the right direction. i understand if this seems dumb in the long run, but hey. thanks for the info anyway, cool strangers.

further edit; it is NOT to spice up the relationship.

final edit, thank you all for your input/info. 💖

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