u/Theory-Sweaty

Need honest opinions because this has been messing with my head. My gf once told me she got “dickmatized” by a situationship before me. Later I found out she was still following the dude on TikTok, but when I brought it up she said she genuinely didn’t realize she still followed him and blocked him immediately. She also reassured me and said I’m the best she’s ever been with.

But mentally I’m struggling to understand how both things can be true at the same time. Like if another dude had you THAT hooked before, how am I suddenly the best? Is “dickmatized” more of an emotional/toxic attachment thing than actually meaning the sex was better?

I’m trying not to overthink it because she did reassure me and cut the dude off without arguing, but that word keeps replaying in my head. Would this bother y’all too?

My gf’s sister admitted she cheated on her boyfriend and apparently she’s cheated in every relationship she’s been in. My gf openly said she thinks it’s wrong and even called her out for it, but when I asked if she was gonna tell the boyfriend she said “it’s not my place.”

Now I’m conflicted because personally if I was getting cheated on, I’d want someone to tell me instead of wasting my time living a lie. I told my gf straight up that if nobody tells him eventually I probably will because morally it feels wrong to stay quiet.

My gf was there during the whole conversation too, so it’s not like I overheard some secret. Now I’m wondering if I’m overstepping or if staying silent makes me just as bad.

Would y’all tell him or stay out of it?