A question about learning a second language
So I am in a situation where it would be highly beneficial for me to learn Mandarin, the issue is I've never been good with learning languages. Even English I did not learn the same as others. As a 13 year old I had terrible grammar and spelling, even though I would read A LOT.
It wasn't until I started doing written RP on sites such as roleplaygateway that I started to get better. At first it was me doing these with other people with similarly bad English, but then I found 'games' in which the people wanted everyone to have a better grasp on the language, and so I ended up having an interest which allowed me to more memorise/copy the grammar people used. Even with this, spellcheck if often useful to me when my brain just doesn't want to work with a specific word.
So anyway. I'm part Italian and I started trying to learn, at first I tried using apps like Duolingo, and it just didn't seem to work for me. I did a unit in uni on beginner Italian and I failed that. The way they teach the languages just doesn't work for me.
But now I have a partner who is Chinese and not only does she want me to learn her language, but her parents only speak Chinese and it does make it hard to be around them when I can't communicate at all.
So for those of you out there who learnt a second language as an adult without it being a special interest, any tips or tricks? Or just different programs/ ways of learning you found were more tism friendly?