Jalila's family
How can someone have a baby and be eating takeaway, chips, and junk food all the time? Your body needs real food to recover and heal. The only times we saw her mum were maybe at the hospital and once or twice at home, for both babies.
A woman should have either a supportive husband or a supportive family. It looks like she has neither. A grown man should at least know how to make simple meals for his family. Maybe he doesn’t have to cook every day if she prefers cooking, but what happens if she ends up in the hospital? What is he going to feed the kids then?
Neither your family nor his family is going to raise and feed the children every day. It’s the parents’ responsibility.
They know Useless does not know how to cook. And he doesn't care and is feeding Idris 24/7 junk too
So it’s not only about blaming the in-laws. What did Jalila’s mum do? Isn’t it normal in many cultures for a mother to help her daughter after having a baby? And I know in many cultures the mum comes to help, cook food, or at least bring meals regularly. Looks like they don't have a good relationship.