I’ve been feeling feminine and cute without lashes recently which is odd bc I normally feel clocky without lashes I still end up wearing them to work bc I’m like maybe I’m overhyping myself lmk 😭
Is it problematic to say that binary trans people have it harder than a nonbinary person? I know being born biological female plays a part in that obviously for afabs but outside of that is it bad to say that they (NBS) have it easier just bc they do not undergo a surgical/medical transition?? And this is coming from someone amab at one point in time I was non binary and now I’m a trans woman and with that experience of being NB the most I dealt with is not feeling comfortable telling ppl my pronouns or ppl just getting them wrong??? But also having cis privilege and being able to move through the world without anyone really saying anything to me. Versus now I feel like the stakes are higher and being a binary trans person you’re held to a higher standard. Cis ppl perceive you as villain for essentially rewriting the binary. Being more susceptible to losing community with ppl. I feel like the likely hood for sexual violence towards trans men is worse same for trans women I feel like you’re more susceptible to losing your job like there’s a lot that goes into that that I think people overlook. Am I wrong for saying that bc I don’t think I am but if I am someone pls let me know I’m just explaining and understanding from my POV
I’m only posting this here bc idk if the person that asked for this follows me or not I hope I don’t get flagged for this 😭 if you want a separate video on how install my extension I can do that as well just lmk :)
I feel like some days I do feel weird abt my face and sometimes I feel sad that I wasn’t able to surgically transition and get ffs like I wanted but I’m also glad it went that way bc at the beginning of my transition i genuinely thought i had to change my entire face now that im older i look in mirror and ask myself why did i ever believe that (not saying i still don’t want some cosmetic work done bc i do tho just not as much as I thought i needed) also i went through a phase where i stopped wearing my natural hair all together and only wore straight hair wigs now that im 27 i feel the prettiest with no makeup and rocking my natural hair the beauty standard really did a number on me for a long time which im still working through those beliefs and feelings and but definitely taking a step in a better direction bc i do be feeling like fine shyt with no wig no makeup 😭
So ik how to apply my makeup the last pic is my normal base but I was wondering is there any tips you’d recommend for someone who’s trying to cover facial hair but also a base that’s not full coverage??? I’ve tried skin tints and I like them but also I usually have to apply more concealer/color corrector to hide the facial hair and then it ends up disrupting the skin tint also I’m just over makeup bc it makes me look more orange than what I really am irl pls help
Tbh I did not want to post a video but I’ve noticed I only get engagement if I post my face but if anyone here has hair like mine what edge control do you use bc for some reason normal edge control doesn’t work but for some reason eco styler gel does??? And even at that it’s like decent. I have 4a hair I normally lay my edges everyday bc it makes my head look smaller so I look more passable but the summer heat is fr tearing my shit up
I haven’t worn a wig in like three months bc I started feeling ugly in them so I went back to the natural hair but I do miss the blonde hair dearly 💔
I saw this on Twitter and I wanna ask bc I thought it was funny but I’ll go first. Genuinely as a kid I thought everyone was suppose to have a birthday once a month 😭😭😭😭
I posted yesterday but this is actually a very serious question should I stretch my septum?? I posted this in another sub but I also think a trans woman perspective is needed bc I naturally have a long face and tbh idrc abt wearing one without makeup bc I’m pretty chopped without it and idc abt looking ugly at home but I do wear makeup everyday to obviously feminize my appearance with that being said do yall think this would make my face look masculine the second pic is what im going for I fr almost bought one the other day bc I want one but like what’s yall opinions and be very honest i dont really wear wigs anymore which that was an avenue to change my appearance but since ive stopped im kinda bored of my appearance and want some sort of change that ups my look to look more alternative
Idk why but recently but I’ve been thinking about sizing up to like 4 in my septum (last pic is the size I’m going for) and I told my mother about it (she did not like the idea😭) I can kinda see me with one without makeup but like would that still look good with makeup I see other women pull it off but idk I almost bought one a few days ago lol
I have not been taking photos of myself recently I been feeling chopped and dysphoric but I felt cute for like two seconds so hey lol
Any of yall like alt pop music ik i keep asking but it would seriously be nice to get more music recommendations bc ive been listening to the same 5 songs
Do ever just randomly remember you’re no longer gay and feel disgusted bc I do I do not like straight ppl 😭😭😭😭 like being gay is so much cooler 😭😭😭😭
I’m ngl every thing I use to do my makeup besides brows is from the dollar store 😭😭
Went on two different dates last week lowkey forgot I had this cardigan it’s patterned like a drug rug but obvi a cardigan and the second fit I took my old tshirt and essentially made a halter top out of a faded black graphic t which looks kinda witchy ngl
Genuinely idk why I would do a full face with blush lip stick lip liner with double stacked 25 mm mink lashes with an eye look to go to work idk who tf I was feeling like it took like so long to realize there’s everyday makeup and then there’s going out makeup mind you I was wearing this to work at 8am 😭😭😭😭😭 I’m glad I learned I look back at it and laugh at it honestly also idk why I was in that 613 faithfully 😭😭😭 glad I woke up to the fact there are alternatives for black women that are more Afrocentric
I haven’t been commenting on yall posts or even using the app bc I’ve been struggling mentally and have felt ugly for like the past two weeks??? Hope yall been good tho I’ve been down bad fr 😭😭😭😭😭
lowkey I have not been using this app hey yal
Idk if yall shop at five and below but I go there for different stuff idk if yall know abt the brand miu miu but they have these specific readers that went viral online which I had last year I think but I broke them ANYWAY they carry them at five and below but in sunglasses and not readers but I settle for these bc these were equally cute
I want something that’s gonna up me aesthetic i currently only have my septum and the side of my nose pierced I’d say my aesthetic is more indie/alt I’ve been thinking abt a bridge piercing???? Should I get one yes or no? Or do you guys have any other ideas on what I should get?????