u/Thisisstupidly

I tend to attract liars, or even turn people into liars because of my emotional sensitivity. People in general have a hard time opening up to me befuae I can be kind of pushy. I am okay with that, and actually as I come to terms with it people have become more open. I do attract liars. Men who liar. Female friends who lie. Big, medium, small.. people lie to save my feelings.. I not only want to have people around me be able to be honest more.. Id also like to attract honest people.. What should I do during conversation to encourage truth? What are some things to look out for in terms of honest people”.

Men like confident women. In the past I was open about my insecurities with partners. It became a bother to them, or was used against me. I know sharing some here and there is okay. I know women in longer more successful relationships that hide all of their insecurities from their men. They only share only with other women. Should I pretend as well or are there downsides to that, too?