u/TieSea3723

My hen do is next week. One of the girls let slip that a butler in the buff has been arranged. She is freaking out as she wasn’t meant to tell me.

I am super anxious about this and not particularly thrilled to be honest. I’m an introvert, my mum and MIL will be at the hen and I’m just really dreading it now.

If they literally will just be serving drinks I’m ok with that. Does anyone know what I can expect? I absolutely do not want a strip show or anything like that and will probably walk out my hen crying if that’s what will happen. I don’t like being the centre of attention!! The girl who told me is not the person who has booked it.

Thanks in advance! (Sorry this wasn’t exactly wedding related but hopefully someone here might know)

My daughter has always been very difficult, she had colic for 5 months and screamed every minute of the day, she’s always hated the buggy and car seat, has never played independently, always seems miserable apart from if our attention is fully on her and we are playing with her.

If me and my partner try to have a conversation that doesn’t involve her she gets very upset. It’s honestly exhausting. We always wanted 2 children but this experience has put me off having another. I do love her so soo much but I’m just struggling!! Did anyone else have a baby/toddler like this and what did they turn out like? Honestly I’m worried about her