My boyfriend takes me for granted and I don't know what to do. I tell him to do anything, he doesn't listen to me. But he loves me just doesn't listen to me. Can you guys suggest me some dark reverse psychology tricks to make him obsessed.
So my boyfriend says that he loves me but I don't feel that he actually loves me because he spends more time with his friends he goes out overnight and where as I stay back at home waiting for him I know it's my mistake I should correct it but the thing that he does it intentionally he goes out every other day with his guys and he smokes and he drinks which I don't like I have told him multiple times that I don't like the way he smoke and drinks but he still he still didn't do any initiative to stop smoking or drinking and he told about me to his family no his family is also involved and I believe that his family is way to involved in his life he never does anything without asking his family even he priorities is friends and family over me but he makes sure that I am well tekken care of a case for me a lot and he never text me out on dates I have to ask him to do that but he is very kind very generous and helpful I don't know what to do I am very confused can you help me. So I was looking for a place to stay in currently we are living in two different rooms and I was looking for an apartment to be with him and he will staying other room and I will stay in other room with my friend my girlfriend and he will stay with my girlfriend's boyfriend so I think that would go perfect but at first he was a great to move when but after consulting his family he De night with me completely and I feel that his family is way to involved in a relationship and even when his life he never take the decision without asking his mother father or his brothers I think that's way too problem