u/Tiny_One_6037

Please no hate, I’m 19 and weight 105kg and I’m 5,10. I hate my body and have for ages I always struggled with my weight.

I tried calorie counting but I cannot do it. I get fixated on under eating the amount it tells me or shame myself that I give up on it. I try to eat intuitively which might be stupid but I’m on adhd meds so I generally cannot overeat big portions. I have no idea why I’m so bad at all of this. I try all different methods and nothing works it just feels like I’m gaining weight or staying the same.

I know it’s easy to say like oh if you measure your calories u might realise ur actually overeating but I cannot measure them. I forget, shame myself and hate myself for it. I have no idea what to do. I try to eat healthier all the time. I have a gym membership and started implementing swimming as cardio because it’s something I really enjoy but I have no time. I don’t know what to do. I know there’s no easy way to lose weight I know it and I tell myself that all the time. I just don’t know what to do to help myself because it’s not even like I need to be a perfect body. I just want to like myself.

Please nobody hate, I know calorie counting is the best way to do everything but I can’t. I have no time i can’t cook for myself cos I have no money.

Just posting to see if anyone’s had a similar experience.

I am trying to get temporary insurance to drive my friend to her driving test. I align with many insurance company policies that let me temporarily insure myself on cars.

For context I’m about to be 19 and have been driving for 9 months, I can temporarily insure myself on many cars like my mums which is somewhat similar to my friends car. (Tried this on Veygo)

I believe her learners insurance is what stops me, my boyfriend who’s 20 and has 2 years of driving experience tried it as well and wasn’t able to. (Veygo)

I tried other insurance companies and none of them let me. I got one quote of £125 for 3 hours.

I just wanted to ask if anyone has had a similar experience and managed to find a cheaper quote. Originally getting temporary insurance on her car would be about £30 (shows on veygo) but it can’t provide me with any actual quotes.