AITA for cutting off my boyfriend/baby daddies family and finally growing a back bone
To start out I just wanna say me (20 F) has been with my boyfriend (20 M) for almost five years we are high school sweethearts. At about 4 years and 2 months we had a rough patch the ended in us taking a break but we would still fool around because this is the only man I have ever been with and nowadays you don’t know what diseases are floating around. Eventually we started talking about our future and he let me decide between marriage or a baby and I have always dreamed of being a mom and having a baby of my own so I chose a baby. We didn’t tell anyone what we were planning nor that we were still seeing each other. After trying for half a month for our son that’s due in September we finally ended up pregnant… plot twist though his family nor my sister was happy at all. There was rumor started that I was out screwing around with other guys but I always had evidence and proof that it was false and the baby is still his whether they like it or not! Well his mother would not help me with the baby registry as this was my first time I needed help and she refused and I ended up putting the wrong date of the baby due date and she tried to use that against me. Well it’s like she can’t accept the fact that her 20 year old son is growing up and starting a family of his own.. and here’s why I say that!!! Anytime there is a disagreement my words are twisted by her or she’s saying I said things that never even came out of my mouth or she tries to throw in that the baby might not even be his (which the baby is his). For example here recently we were driving down the road it was me my boyfriends mom and his 13 year old brother as my boyfriend was at work and we were on the way to take his brother to our local city pool where his mom ended up telling him she had $4 dollars in cash and one dollar in change and it turned into a whole argument because a DOLLAR IN CHANGE WAS JUST SO EMBARRASSING and all I said was sometimes you have to do what you have to do when your not rich I even threw in the fact that my boyfriend don’t like to pay in change either but he’s learned that when your not rich you gotta do what you gotta do…. His little brother turned around as I’m sitting in the back seat and he’s in the front and started going off on me calling me a lazy fat b!tch and telling me no one likes me and knew things he shouldn’t have even been told or shouldn’t even know because it’s between me and my bf (as his mom and my sister started the rumors) well she just sat there and let him say a whole bunch of things that wasn’t true and when I got out of the car my boyfriends mom texted him and said a whole bunch of nonsense that I didn’t even say mind you saying I called not only my boyfriends brother but also my boyfriend entitled and spoiled… she likes to start fights between and twists my words. So AITA because when our baby is born I will not let his family around our son? She also tells him he don’t have to be loyal and he don’t owe anything to me because we are not married… like we didn’t just decide to grow us a little family of our own and chose to build a life together… all while she’s fucking around with a man that’s engaged and she was screwing a man that was married 🤷♀️