u/TopMathematician7002

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Hey girls of Reddit,

I need some honest advice because my brain clearly doesn’t know how to act in these situations.

I’m a 20-year-old guy. Not a model, not 6ft, just a normal dude (5’6” on a confident day 😭). I’d say I’m respectful, chill, and not trying to be creepy or anything.

But here’s my problem:

Sometimes I just want to:

- Start a normal conversation

- Or tell a girl she looks really cute / has a nice smile

That’s it. No weird intentions, no “rizz game,” just being genuine.

BUT… my brain immediately goes:

- “What if she thinks I’m hitting on her?”

- “What if I come off as awkward or annoying?”

- “What if she gets uncomfortable or gives that ‘why is he talking to me’ look?”

And then I just silently walk away like:

🚶‍♂️ “Mission failed. Try again never.”

So I wanted to ask you all directly:

👉 How should a guy approach you for a normal conversation so it feels natural and comfortable?

👉 How do you give a compliment in a way that feels nice and not creepy?

👉 Is it better to compliment and leave, or try to continue the convo?

👉 What instantly gives you “he’s genuine” vibes vs “nope, something’s off”?

For example, is something like this okay?

“Hey, I don’t want to be awkward, but I just wanted to say you have a really nice smile. Have a good day.”

Or is even that too much?

I’m not trying to impress anyone, just trying to unlock the basic “talk to people” skill without activating anxiety + misunderstanding combo.

Would genuinely appreciate your perspective 🙏

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Hey everyone,

Posting this with a bit of hope here.

Me and my friend (2 people) are looking for a place to stay — preferably a room in a pre-occupied 2BHK. If that’s not possible, even a 1RK setup would really help us.

We’re both freshers, just starting out — one of us is doing an internship and the other is still searching for a job. Because of that, our budget is honestly quite tight right now, so we’re looking for something affordable without extra charges.

Preferred areas:

Raipur Khadar, Sector 126, Sector 44 Noida (nearby areas also work)

Also, PG is not an option for me due to food issues, so only flat/room options please.

Trying to manage everything at this stage is a bit overwhelming, so any lead, contact, or even a small help would genuinely mean a lot to us.

Thanks a lot in advance ❤️

Hey everyone,

Posting this with a bit of hope here.

Me and my friend (2 people) are looking for a place to stay — preferably a room in a pre-occupied 2BHK. If that’s not possible, even a 1RK setup would really help us.

We’re both freshers, just starting out — one of us is doing an internship and the other is still searching for a job. Because of that, our budget is honestly quite tight right now, so we’re looking for something affordable without extra charges.

Preferred areas:

Raipur Khadar, Sector 126, Sector 44 Noida (nearby areas also work)

Also, PG is not an option for me due to food issues, so only flat/room options please.

Trying to manage everything at this stage is a bit overwhelming, so any lead, contact, or even a small help would genuinely mean a lot to us.

Thanks a lot in advance ❤️