How my now ex destroyed my car after an argument
I’m not innocent. I said things I shouldn’t have said and did things I shouldn’t have did. This all started because of his attitude/ my response to his attitude/ then he was mad at me because of my attitude, and it hurt got worse and worse until we were outright screaming at each other and when we got home I locked my apartment door to give him some space. Well that made it worse because when he tried opening the door he saw it was locked and then we went and did this. All 4 doors bent completely backwards and now they do not close at all. The car is in both our names but I’m the one who is paying it off. I think if I just kept my mouth shut and didn’t have my part in it this wouldn’t have happened but here we are. Now I have to rely on my neighbors to get my kids to and from school, luckily they are so kind. He’s packing his stuff right now and I’m reeling but I’m also so confused because we were having a good relationship and I don’t know why he was acting so rude to me in the first place (I didn’t hear him calling my name while talking to a mom friend at the bus stop so he came up to me and said, You couldn’t hear me? And it went from there. I asked him who are you talking to? Because he seemed upset and after I said that I guess I set him off). I’m hurt, confused, feeling guilty, angry, I think I went through all of the stages of grief already. Now I’m just numb. We were doing so well and now he goes and does this.