u/Tough-Cow810

Hello everyone, this is kind of a stupid question but can not find anything online. I was active duty and I’m about to finish a year of active reserves. I’m now transitioning into a traditional reservist and I have no idea how to get medical care outside of the military. I have two meds that I have to take every day and I do not know how to get those off base. Also if I have an appointment for medical how do I go about doing that. I’m assuming I just call a place and ask if they have Tricare and I call Tricare to get it set up??? I really don’t know and it’s making a bit stressed out. Please help a soon to be a full time civilian

Hello everyone I am bisexual (and this is important to the story)

I had a friend group for about 2.5 yrs now. I met all of them through skateboarding and roller skating. This group heavily prides themselves on being a LGBT group as almost all of the girls are lesbian or bisexual. When I first started hanging out with them, I was only dating women at the time, and a lot of the conversations revolved around our queerness and journeys, which I didn’t mind at all as it was one of our biggest connections outside of roller skating. I became close to one of the girls and she also happened to be the one who plans all the hang outs with all of our friends. Me and her hung out all of the time and she’s still newer to her journey but is the one who pushes being queer heavily into convos and things that we do. I never saw this as a problem and simply just enjoyed my time being with my friend and new found friend group. However recently I’ve seen a huge shift. I got a boyfriend about four months ago and my friends stopped hanging out with me and inviting me to things. Mind my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I only brought him up once in conversation when I started dating him, to tell the girls about my new found love. Ever since then I don’t get invited or reached out to anymore and it really hurts my feelings. The only tie that I can connect it to them not wanting to hang out is because I’m not longer considered “gay” in their eyes.
I guess I’m just asking what I should do if there is anything I can do. These were my only friends in town and it just stings a little bit that we’re no longer hanging out as much.

Notes: I have reached out to the main girl and she said she’s just been busy but will post group hang outs on the insta

Note 2| she reached out to me to go to a rave last second and I said yes, and when I showed up she said she had an extra ticket but I was her last resort because everyone bailed last second and it stung super bad but she didn’t say it with ill intention but it HURT.

Note 3| I’m 25f, main friend is 32F , rest of group is ages 25-333f

Hello everyone,

I have recently been scared of dying but the pain of it. I’m scared I’m going to die a slow painful death. It’s been giving me terrible anxiety that I don’t want to do anything exciting or adventurous because of the pain that I could possibly endure. I’m not scared of the afterlife or things not existing, I’m scared of my final moments being the worse time of my life. Has anyone experienced this and how did you overcome it?

I (25 F)have been with my boyfriend (25 M) for about a year and he does not make me sexually satisfied. When we first stayed dating he said that he doesn’t like to eat girls out unless he’s in love with them. Fast forward a few months he says he’s in love with me but doesn’t want to eat me out. I was okay with that but as time goes on he’s been slowly not been touching me in general. I brought it up to him and he simply told me he is not a pleaser in the bedroom. I was upset with him and he said it wasn’t me but it was with every partner he’s been with, and that’s just how he is. He also brought up that he’s great in every other part of our relationship which is true, and when I have problems with anything else he will fix it, but he won’t budge on this issue. I don’t how important this is for me but after a year it’s starting to to become a bit frustrating. Any advice?