u/Tr_nnyshark

Stickers

Does anyone have one of the powerpuff girl blade angel stickers ambers been giving out? I’m willing to trade/pay for it I make Kandi and can make you a blade angels Kandi cuff or really any other Kandi thing pls let me know if your interested 🙏

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u/Tr_nnyshark — 3 days ago

Need advice

Ok stick with me this is going to be kinda long but I need help I’m not really sure where to start but I’ll try my best to make this cohesive. (I’m also not very good at grammar) so I was in this friend group with my current best friend I’m going to call him Ned and his then situationship/friends with benefits thingy who I will call Adam, I was friends with Adam as well and we got along pretty well, at that time I was dating someone who I’ll call x. Me x Adam and Ned and some other friends went to a valentines dinner this was x first time meeting my friends as we were kinda long distance and at this dinner I was sa’d by x and then sa’d more when I got home, now i had been sa’d before this so I was having flashbacks on top of everything and after basically ghosting everyone for the weekend I told my friends and I broke up with x and me and x breakup was extremely messy he was publicly slandering me and it was awful and very traumatic and Adam was very upset by the way x was treating me and had confronted x over dm (this will be important later) and overall it was very messy me and my friends completely cut off x and we just tried to leave that behind well a few months later Ned decided he didn’t want to be in a situationship with Adam anymore and just wanted to be friends Adam said this was ok so they decided to hang out as friends but I guess Adam wasn’t really ok with just being friends and sa’d Ned. Ned told me what happened and obviously I supported him and then him and Adam had a huge fight over text about it where Adam was excusing what he did and saying he wanted to unalive himself because of it and Ned decided they needed to have this conversation in person and I told Ned I’d be there for him and at the conversation so when this conversation took place Ned froze and Adam continued spewing him same argument and I yelled at him and we fought because I was sticking up for my friend after that conversation they ended up going no contact but Adam still kept coming to these meetups that we used to all three go to and it was making Ned have nightmares and flashbacks and Adam would subtly break no contact or stare are Ned or just be a ahole so Ned asked me to confront Adam and I did over text and I got in trouble by the people who run the meet ups and I think that’s when Adam really started hating me and idk if it was for revenge or what but he decided to date x and I found out from a friend and I was very upset by this and so was Ned and it caused both of us extreme stress and anxiety we were both heavily effected by this now fast forward a few months again and Ned is just really upset he can’t attend these meet ups without having nightmares so he talked to the people who run the meet ups and they decided to do a meeting which would be the person who runs the meet ups Adam and Ned I’m unsure what all went down during this conversation but they decided to be civil and try and make it work and I was told by Ned that Adam stated he hated me and didn’t want to speak to me which is whatever I didn’t want to speak to him either but Ned wanted to make this work and forgive Adam which yk is not the path I went down after my situation but I wanted to respect Ned’s choice but Ned asked me to basically meditate them hanging out which I agreed to do once and needless to say that was a disaster Adam hadn’t changed one bit despite Ned thinking he did and he showed all the same behaviors as before and I was honestly really frustrated. Ned wanted me to hang out with him and Adam the next day and I stated very clearly I don’t want to associate with Adam or anyone who does the type of stuff he does so Ned told Adam to not come to the hangout well guess what Adam did anyway and so I purposely ignored him till i physically couldn’t anymore and he begged to hang out with us and I stated I already have an answer which made him hate me even more I guess. Then Ned asked me to ask x for screenshots of x and Adam’s conversations where Adam made very awful sa jokes and stated multiple times he hated me and needed to rant about me when Ned asked Adam about these things he gave dodgy answers and Also said he only dated x because he was lonely and x reached out to him first which if you remember from earlier last time x and Adam had a conversation it was Adam confronting him so I know for sure that isn’t true but for some reason Ned believed Adam. Fast forward some more Adam and Ned have started dating and I’m still seeing concerning behavior from Adam toward Ned and I jsut want to know if I’m overreacting thinking they should not be dating after what happened like I’m worried I’m just responding this way because of my trauma and not because it’s actually bad but I’m really worried for Ned’s safety and I just don’t trust Adam. Thank you for reading this all let me know if you have questions

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u/Tr_nnyshark — 8 days ago
▲ 3 r/COCSA

So like 5 years ago now I started at a new school and I went to summer school to try and get used to the school before I fully started and there was this guys who was the same age as me and who was part of this friend group I was invited to join I already had a hard time at school because I was very outwardly trans in a conservative state and even though I was trans no one ever referred to me as a boy anyway one day we were at dismal and he sa’d me the first time I told my parents and I was very clearly deeply effected by this situation so in response for the rest of summer school I moved classes and there was a chance we wouldn’t end up at the same school when the actual semester started well low and behold we did and while at this school he sa’d me 5 more times and r worded me once my parents knew this and told me pressing charges would ruin his life and the most we could do was talk to the school well the school did nothing and called me a liar and I was forced to go to school here for two years I was miserable and very unwell I was put on medication at this time for my mental health and I was seeing crisis counselors often and had to visit mental health facilities and my parents realized either I stay or I kms and so finally I was pulled well fast forward to now and they constantly bring up how sorry they are they didn’t take me out of school sooner but I can’t help but feel like they don’t deserve forgiveness 1st off they’ve never actually apologized for not reporting him only for making me stay and also they knew I was unwell and they knew what he did and it’s not like I couldn’t have gone to another school I definitely could’ve and I can’t help but feel guilty for still being mad but at the same time I don’t this I should forgive them

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u/Tr_nnyshark — 20 days ago