Why do NRIs feel entitled to give unsolicited advice and act like they are better than the folks back home?
Every year we host our NRI relatives (they self-invite) and they treat our place as a vacation home. Sure, no problem in hosting them but then they come here, they think it’s okay to live at someone place for 10 days, compare how their kids are doing well(which is fine) and give unsolicited advice on how us kids should lead our lives. They always compare how good the culture is in US for example kids start working at the age of 18 and shit on Indian culture about how their parents help them even after 18. I get it, US is better in many ways but I am not trying to be reminded of what I could do better from a stranger who doesn’t even know me. Why do they act so preachy?