u/TraumaMamaZ

How did you all get through the initial 2 week daily application period without estro-creaming all over your mate in the sack?!

Recently divorced, late 40s, horny af, and a little dry sometimes. I talked to my gyno and girlfriends about it and they recommended I try estrogen cream. Cool. But I have a very active sex life with a new partner, a much younger stud, and don’t really want to explain why this cougar has left a white creamy mess on him. 🫠 I saw lots of commenters saying to use the cream right before bed, after sex. But this dude often wants an unexpected round 2, morning sex upon wake-up, afternoon sex-capades…there’s not even a time of the day I can point to where we’d def not be getting down for 2 full weeks.

At the end of February I started going to Latin dance classes and staying for social dance after. This has been an absolute game changer for me. The community is thriving where I live so there’s free or cheap Latin dance classes and social at least 4-5 nights/week somewhere local.
* It gets me moving at least 8hrs/week.
* It allows me to meet lots of people without having to be in long conversations.
* It brought me into the fold of a whole community of loving friends who are there whenever I show up without the pressure of making plans (many also neurospicy).
* It helps me sleep better when I finally get home.
* It has me showering regularly (I get so sweaty!).

And holy crap this is all doing an impeccable job at regulating my nervous system!!! Big wins all around. If you love dancing, I highly recommend Latin dance/social dancing.