u/Trend_Setter_009

If you are in Ruby today HMU

I’m 24, based in Mumbai, and honestly just feeling a bit lonely right now. Not in a desperate, save-me kind of way. Just… in a human way. The way you feel when you’ve had enough of shallow chats and one-line DMs. So I’m trying something in the hope that someone decent, warm and emotionally available might be reading.

I’m NOT looking for married folks or people in relationships. And I’m not into Hidden or NSFW profiles either (I won’t engage with NSFW at all). If you’re under 23 and over 30 (40+ uncles f*** off), I wish you well but please skip this post.

What am I looking for? Someone who:

• is 23- 30 (40+ year old uncles please stay away, if you end being a creep i'll reveal your chats on reddit)
• lives in MUMBAI ONLY (No MAKABO and Goregaon pls; I am not going to travel for you that far, nor do I expect you to travel for me). If you are from Thane or Navi Mumbai....forget it, y'all aren't even a part of Mumbai.
• is emotionally mature
• Has good grammar and vocabulary to string up a decent intro. (Hate those fake "i found your post extremely relatable type guys.. buddy I'm a girl if you find it relatable you r probably gay)
• might want to meet in person eventually, because I do crave real-world connection, not just chat buddies (Your stupid bike rides, treks and chapri marine drive walks aren't something to look forward to honestly. I am noy going to meet you that easily so don't just start the convo with let's go for coffee)
• doesn’t smoke
• Willing to share your picture if I accept your dm request. (Dw ill share mine as well)

I’m not looking to develop any romantic emotions for you so don't even bother waiting it out (read the flair first). Just need someone to talk to (I'll probably end up ditching you in a week or so if we don't vibe).

Please, no “hi” or “wanna chat?” messages. Put some thought into your first message, tell me a little bit about you, and I’ll show up with the same energy.

I might take this post down later. This is a soft moment. If you’re kind, chatty, emotionally available and live in Mumbai… say hi. Properly.

Be genuine instead of just trying to pic points from my post and telling me that you satisfy my requirements.

If you have dmd, and have not gotten a response......(Well that should be self explanatory for a smart person)

I’m 24, based in Mumbai, and honestly just feeling a bit lonely right now. Not in a desperate, save-me kind of way. Just… in a human way. The way you feel when you’ve had enough of shallow chats and one-line DMs. So I’m trying something in the hope that someone decent, warm and emotionally available might be reading.

I’m NOT looking for married folks or people in relationships. And I’m not into Hidden or NSFW profiles either (I won’t engage with NSFW at all). If you’re under 23 and over 30 (40+ uncs f*** off), I wish you well but please skip this post.

What am I looking for? Someone who:

• is 23- 30 (40+ year old uncs please stay away, if you end being a creep i'll reveal your chats on reddit)
• lives in MUMBAI ONLY (No MAKABO and Goregaon pls; I am not going to travel for you that far, nor do I expect you to travel for me). If you are from Thane or Navi Mumbai....forget it, y'all aren't even a part of Mumbai.
• is emotionally mature
• Has good grammar and vocabulary to string up a decent intro. (Hate those fake "i found your post extremely relatable type guys..buddy Im a girl if you find it relatable you r probably gay)
• might want to meet in person eventually, because I do crave real-world connection, not just chat buddies (Your stupid bike rides, treks and chapri marine drive walks aren't something to look forward to honestly. I am noy going to meet you that easily so don't just start the convo with let's go for coffee)
• doesn’t smoke
• Willing to share your picture if I accept your dm request. (Dw ill share mine as well)

I’m not looking to develop any romantic emotions for you so don't even bother waiting it out. Just need someone to talk to (I'll probably end up ditching you in a week or so if we dont vibe).

Please, no “hi” or “wanna chat?” messages. Put some thought into your first message, tell me a little bit about you, and I’ll show up with the same energy.

I might take this post down later. This is a soft moment. If you’re kind, chatty, emotionally available and live in Mumbai… say hi. Properly.

Be genuine instead of just trying to pic points from my post and telling me that you satisfy my requirements.

If you have dmd, and have not gotten a response......(Well that should be self explanatory for a smart person)

I’m 24, based in Mumbai, and honestly just feeling a bit lonely right now. Not in a desperate, save-me kind of way. Just… in a human way. The way you feel when you’ve had enough of shallow chats and one-line DMs. So I’m trying something in the hope that someone decent, warm and emotionally available might be reading.

I’m NOT looking for married folks or people in relationships. And I’m not into Hidden or NSFW profiles either (I won’t engage with NSFW at all). If you’re under 23 and over 30, I wish you well but please skip this post.

What am I looking for? Someone who:

• is 23- 30
• lives Mumbai (No MAKABO and Goregaon pls; it's already tiring that I have to go to office that side). If you are from Thane or Navi Mumbai....forget it, y'all are basically villagers and gonna get ignored.
• is emotionally mature and introspective
• likes talking, like actual talking
• might want to meet in person eventually, because I do crave real-world connection, not just chat buddies (Im not gonna meet you today itself so stop coming up with bike ride, cafe, trek plans)
• doesn’t smoke

I’m not opposed to something romantic developing, but I’m also not jumping into any conversation with a checklist. Going in with a “let’s see what unfolds” energy.

Please, no “hi” or “wanna chat?” messages. Put some thought into your first message, tell me a little bit about you, and I’ll show up with the same energy.

I write long-ish messages and care about emotional alignment. I don’t want to feel like I’m performing cool-girl detachment when what I really want is intense-girl connection.

I might take this post down later. This is a soft moment. If you’re kind, chatty, emotionally available and live in Mumbai… say hi. Properly.

Be genuine instead of just trying to pic points from my post and telling me that you satisfy my requirements.

If you have dmd, and not getting a response. (Well that should be self explanatory for a smart person)