Should I confront the woman my ex-fiancé cheated on me with?
Long story short: my ex-fiancé (42) cheated on me while my father was dying. The other woman was a former student (24) at the university where I work. She knew my dad was dying, and she also knew he was my fiancé at the time and she knew me.
Ever since I found out (thanks to one of her friends and also former student), she hasn’t stopped throwing shade and making passive-aggressive posts on social media that are very obviously aimed at me. It’s honestly giving immature mean girl energy, and I’m so over it. Like… girl, you’ve already shown you’re a heartless bad person. What exactly are you trying to achieve now? Are you an attention seeker?
They’re both terrible people, but for reasons that aren’t relevant here, I still have a tiny bit of respect left for my ex. Her? Absolutely none. She’s been taking digs at me for six months now, and my patience is running out.
Would it be a mistake to confront her and tell her to cut the crap once and for all? Or is ignoring her still the better option? I swear I’ve been patient enough… six months of this.
TIA .