u/TrinaSaysNo

Is this enough workout for a beginner?

I started working out 2 months ago, I'm trying to get into calisthenics. I train everyday, I do 10 pushups (I progressed from knee pu), 5 pistol squats (I progressed from bss), i do some pulling training with resistance bands and I do some compression work, I'm working towards the l sit, I can do tucked l sit now.

Is this enough workout? I'm trying to keep it minimal so I can stick to it since I'm still new and I have a busy schedule..

Is there anything I need to change or add?

Any easy calisthenics skills I can work on now?

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u/TrinaSaysNo — 1 day ago

So me (f 23) and my friend A (f 23) r so close. We're bff's and we confide in each other. We have other friends but the two of us r the closest. B is our other friend, she's amazing, lately A n B r getting closer, I don't mind. But when B s around A only focuses on her smh. Like if we're out shopping she links arms with B and they sometimes walk in front of me and leave me behind. I tried asking them to wait for me, and A knows me so she noticed I was upset, she linked arms with me for some time but it was like outa pity and she forgot moments after and that happened again. If she's buying something she asks us for our opinion but she only looks at B.

I'm not usually emotional or sensitive but this is getting to me a lot. I'm srsly thinking about not going out with them again. I can't talk to A about this cuz this should be spontaneous, I don't wanna beg for her attention. But I also can't just get over it. It's rly getting to me.

What do I do?

Tldr

My bff is getting closer to someone else and I feel left out when I'm with them.

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u/TrinaSaysNo — 18 days ago

I (23F) have been close friends with A (23F) for about 6 years, she's a rly great friend and she's been there for me, we’ve always been the closest in our friend group. We also have another friend, B (23F), who we’ve known for around 5 years.

Lately, A and B have been getting closer, which I don’t mind in itself. But when we all hang out or go shopping, I’ve started to feel left out. For example, they’ll walk ahead together, link arms, or when A asks for opinions, she mostly looks at B. I’ve tried to brush it off, but it’s starting to get to me.

I don’t want to come across as needy or like I’m competing for attention, so I can't ask her about it and I feel like this kind of thing should happen naturally in friendships, if it's not spontaneous what's the point. At the same time, I can’t just ignore how I feel.

How do I handle this?

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u/TrinaSaysNo — 18 days ago